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My self-summary
Mostly looking for friends with benefits, persons to hang out with, rather than just sexual adventures.

I find it surprisingly difficult to describe myself. I am, in no particular order, an INFJ, living in a happy openish marriage, mother of two boys, vegetarian, liberal Christian, currently studying social work, former theologian / scholar in the fields of Biblical studies & Early Christianity & gender studies, pacifist, bookworm and passionate about role-playing games and historical re-enactment.

I am quirky, warm, and quiet
What I’m doing with my life
Studying social work at the university, playing and especially gamemastering role-playing games, writings larps, reading, watching movies and tv-series, cooking unhealthy vegetarian food, dancing and spending time with my husband, our two sons and friends.
I’m really good at
I have been told that when gamemastering, I am twisted and devious, but in a good way :)
The first things people usually notice about me
I am rather shy around strangers. Then again, I am also fond of bad jokes/puns.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food

(a) The Three Musketeers; Passage, To Say Nothing of the Dog and Doomsday Book by Connie Willis; Mirror Dance and A Civil Campaing by Lois McMaster Bujold; Mary Russell novels by Laurie R. King; Gone with the Wind; Tipping the Velvet, Fingersmith and Affinity by Sarah Waters; The Onion Girl by Charles de Lint; books by Arthur Perez-Revérte; Lynley books by Elizabeth George; Jeeves stories by P.G. Wodehouse; books by Neil Gaiman. In general, urban fantasy, historical fiction and intelligent mysteries, as well as speculative fiction that is not your average fantasy.

(b) Gone with the Wind; Rosemary's Baby; Jesus Christ Superstar; My Fair Lady; Singing in the Rain; Who Framed, Roger Rabbit?; Priest; movies by Almodovar

At the moment, I am almost more into tv series than movies. Some favourites include Buffy and Angel, Veronica Mars, Deadwood, Big Love, Pride and Prejudice, Friends and House.

(c) My many favourites include The Beatles; Dead Can Dance; Tori Amos; Garth Brooks; CMX; Hedningarna; Värttinä; Maija Vilkkumaa; Miljoonasade; Zen Café; Gjallarhorn; The Klezmatics; Cantata Sangui; Bollywood soundtracks; classic musicals. Folk music I like a lot nowadays. I also listen to Gregorian music and ambient when working.

(d) Depends. I am vegetarian, although I lnowadays eat fish as well. I occasionally think about going vegan but simply cannot give up cheese, which I adore. :) I like Thai food and Nepalese, as well as pizzas and pastas.

Six things I could never do without
1. my friends, 2. love, 3. idealism, 4. books, 5. computer, 6. summer and sunshine
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Almost anything :) I am one of those people who feel tempted to wake up their SO in the middle of the night ans ask something like "what is the etymology of this word" or "have you ever thought when people first started to think themselves as a nation" or "what variables should be taken into account when counting this and that" (I usually don't, though :).

I also think a lot about my friends and what's going on in their lives, as well as thinking (and ranting about :) various social causes and injustices.
On a typical Friday night I am
This depends a lot. Sometimes I'm in a pub with my friends, or partying in someone's house (or invited them to mine); other times I'm at home watching movies, playing computer games or whatever.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I consider myself kinda private individual and I am shy to post anything too private here; I am much more open in actual conversations. I guess my polyamorous tendencies already mentioned will be the most private thing. I love the excitement of making new connections or deepening old ones.
You should message me if
If you think we have something in common based on the things I wrote to my profile. A word of warning, though: I try to be kind but I am also busy and picky nowadays; your chances of getting a reply are a lot better if you can write grammatically sound English/Finnish and actually say something about our common interests. I probably don't have time to answer messages like "hey sexy!!!!!!11!" I have been passive here, but try to from now on answer all messages that have meaningful content :)

Jos olet suomenkielinen niin kirjoita toki suomeksi vaikka profiili onkin englanniksi, olen siis ihan suomenkielinen :)
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