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My self-summary
A gamer and a metalhead, a lover of epic fantasy novels and witty conversations. I don't speak much around people I don't know very well, but when I do it's on a subject i'm passionate about and can get very argumentative. I love a good argument though I tend to get excited and sometimes loud and people perceive that as aggressive.
In my 30's now I've been through many stages in my life, very few of them good or easy. I am now finally settled.

After years of frustration and wondering what was wrong with me and relationships I finally realised that the notion of ownership was putting me off. It is absurd to believe that you own a person and create rules and borders on what they can do, when they can do it and with who. That invisible leash on each other's neck is what makes people take the situation for granted, let go and stop caring. Being entirely free at all times keeps you on your toes. Makes you realise every day how lucky you are that the people who love you, still stick with you because they chose to, not because they "have" to.
What I’m doing with my life
Recently started on a new job I really like, and finding more options open up in front of me.
Figuring out the next step up the climbing wall called Life.
I’m really good at
Being a pillow and a bed warmer at the same time, or so I'm told. Driving! It relaxes me. I'm not one of those people who do a little bit of everything just to seem "active". I do a lot of the few things I really love doing.
The first things people usually notice about me
If I hear "You look like Jesus" again i'm gonna murder someone... with a cross... and a candelabra...

maybe some chains too.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
My range in books is vast, from "War and Peace" and "Great Expectations" to "Lord of the Rings". If you've read, know of, or want to learn more about Steven Erikson's Malazan Books (only the best fantasy book series ever published) get in touch.

My music is mostly Metal but not limited to that. Bands I listen to a LOT lately, Amon Amarth, Eluveitie, Primordial, Monster Magnet, Kyuss, Clutch, In Flames, Arch Enemy, Running Wild.

Let me write a few of my favorite games too: Mass effect, Baldur's Gate, Vampire the Masquerade: Bloodlines, Guildwars 2, Diablo, Elder Scrolls franchise, The Witcher, The Binding of Isaac, Need for Speed: Underground 2, Rocket League, X-Com...(will update with more as soon as my brain co-operates)

Cheese. In/on anything...
Give me a cheese variety platter and a good selection of tasty beers and I'm the happiest man alive.
Six things I could never do without
Games, Beer, Pizza, Sex, Cars, Music, Wits.

With no particular order.

I spend a lot of time thinking about
The next car I will buy.
A Lab or a Golden retriever?
Why people make relationships (and life) more complicated than they really are.
On a typical Friday night I am
Out with a beer in hand and friends. Indoors with a snack in hand and a film. Or most probably in my chair with keyboard and mouse in hand playing something.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I've made peace with my mistakes so I don't hide anything from people that interest me.
You should message me if
You wanna chat, make a new friend and generally have a good time with nice talks about anything and everything, no matter how trivial or intimate in nature.
Also if you know of any good metal clubs or pubs and you'd like to take me there. Or show me any other interesting place you've found in this city.
The two of us