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My self-summary
Lover of life, traveler, optimist, artist. Sweet vermouth and bitter drinks. Psychonaut who's past the drugs phase. Ex-Slytherin, now Gryffindor. Young enough to learn and be interested, old enough to know what I want.

I enjoy fire spinning (too many photos have been taken for me not to post them), drawing and sketching, philosophy, computer science and math, surfing, weightlifting, and good conversation in cash-only ramen joints.

Monogamish. Looking for a primary, or just platonic friendships who want to see shows together.
What I’m doing with my life
Running a web development company and enjoying as much of the city as I can.
I’m really good at
Building websites.
Probabilistic AI.
Fire poi spinning.
Talking about how cool Burning Man used to be.
Making Drawrings
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
"Godel, Escher, Bach," "Metamagical Themas," and "Fluid Concepts and Creative Analogies" by Douglas Hofstadter.
"The Sandman" series by Neil Gaiman, Dune, The Language Instinct and How the Mind Works by Steven Pinker, The Emperor's New Mind, "The Cartoon Guide" series by Larry Gonick, A Wrinkle in Time and anything by Doctor Seuss.

I may be the only computer geek alive who doesn't like Neal Stephenson.

Fight Club, the Matrix and Dark City. That's right, I'm seventeen.

Bojack Horseman, Rick and Morty, Californication.

Beethoven, Bach, Haydn, Chopin, Rachmaninov, Bob Dylan, Johnny Cash, the Rolling Stones, Jimi Hendrix, Tool, Tori Amos, Joni Mitchell, Lemon Jelly, Rage Against The Machine, Miles Davis, John Coltrane, Aphex Twin, the Chemical Brothers, Anabolic Frolic, Pantha du Prince, Happy Hardcore.

Japanese, Thai, Indian. Generally anything spicy (I used to live on a ghost pepper farm, so my capsaicin tolerance is crazy high). And I really like licorice.
Six things I could never do without
Learning new, cool stuff
Regular exercise
Long, daydreamy walks
The American Dream (yes, I said that)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
How many problems could be solved by legalizing sex work.

What being a woman on OkCupid is like.

Tech business models that don't just involve outsourcing people's social skills.

Actual market solutions to real problems. (I keep coming back to destroying capitalism)

If the American Left remembers about that whole wealth gap thing.

If it's possible for my to identify as polyamorous without looking like a sex addict.
On a typical Friday night I am
uhhhh it's New York
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I lived in North Carolina for eight years, and it was an amazing experience.
You should message me if
You want to be the best person you can be, want me to be the best person I can be, and want the favor returned.

Swipe left if you're "looking for a male feminist to overthrow the patriarchy." Good lord.
The two of us