33Watertown, United States
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My self-summary
As we grow up, we learn that even the one person that wasn't supposed to ever let you down probably will. You will have your heart broken probably more than once and it's harder every time. You'll break hearts too, so remember how it felt when yours was broken. You'll fight with your best friend. You'll blame a new love for things an old one did. You'll cry because time is passing too fast, and you'll eventually lose someone you love. So take too many pictures, laugh too much, and love like you've never been hurt because every sixty seconds you spend upset is a minute of happiness you'll never get back.

Sometimes people come into your life and you know right away that they were meant to be serve some sort of purpose, teach you a lesson or help figure out who you are or who you want to become. You never know who these people may be, but when you lock eyes with them, you know at that very moment that they will affect your life in some profound way. And sometimes things happen to you that may seem horrible, painful and unfair, but in reflection you realize that without overcoming those obstacles you would have never realized your potential, strength, willpower or heart. Everything happens for a reason. Nothing happens by chance or by means of good luck. Illness, injury, love, lost moments of true greatness and sheer stupidity...all occur to test the limits of your soul. Without these small tests, life would be like a smoothly-paved, straight, flat road to nowhere. Safe and comfortable, but dull and utterly pointless. The people you meet affect your life. The successes and downfalls that you experience can create who you are, and the bad experiences can be learned from. In fact, they are probably the most poignant and important ones. If someone hurts you, betrays you or breaks your heart, forgive them because they have helped you learn about trust and the importance of being cautious to whom you open your heart. If someone loves you, love them back unconditionally, not only because they love you, but because they are teaching you to love and open your heart and eyes to little things. Make every day count. Appreciate every moment and take from it everything that you possibly can, for you may never be able to experience it again. Talk to people you have never talked to before, and actually listen. Hold your head up because you have every right to. Tell yourself you are a great individual and believe in yourself, for if you don't believe in yourself, no one else will believe in you. Create your own life and then go out and live it.
What I’m doing with my life
I really didn't wanna sound cliche but I actually have to. I know everyone, "blah blah blah, 2016 was so the best/worst year ever!" 99% of people did and accomplished the same stuff since 2000. But I can truly say from the depths of my soul and heart that 2016 was my year of perseverance. 2016 tried screwing me in the ass right off the bat. Every aspect of life was thrown at me physically, intellectually, emotionally, and financially. Not in moderation, but in a way no one will every know or understand except me. 2016 will always carry a special place in my heart with more ups, downs, memories, heartbreaks, and challenges that no human being should ever have to go through in their lifetime. I do believe everything happens for a reason. I have been rewarded for my perseverance in a way where I can say I am truly happy. I pray whoever reads this can find their own happiness in life. I do believe everyone has happiness waiting for them in the end and you can overcome anything you put your mind to. I'm ready for whatever LIFE throws at me at this point after 2016.
I’m really good at
Inserting jokes into deep conversations, as well as observing deep things at the root of funny stories - because my favorite comedy makes me think and my favorite thinking makes me laugh.
The first things people usually notice about me
I was recently told that I supposedly have strong facial features.... eyebrows, smile, and cheekbones. Im told its not a bad thing but I guess I look intimidating. But im really just a big teddy bear 🐻
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books - I won't lie, I've never read a whole book start to finish in my life. Ive always read mostly newspapers and magazines.

Music - I'm not really picky with music. I usually listen to music at the gym so it's mostly hardcore or workout stuff. Outside the gym it's mostly classic rock.

Food - I love finding new places to eat. I enjoy exploring mom and pop restaurants.
Six things I could never do without
1. Sleep
2. Job and money
3. Food
4. Sports
5. Movies
6. Holidays
I spend a lot of time thinking about
As a man, I hate being expected to be this confident guy with an active social life all the time. I think the world would be healthier if guys and girls lowered their grandiose expectations and just accepted people for the awkward sometimes gross people that we all are. The dating process feels so artificial and not natural anymore.
On a typical Friday night I am
I used to work Friday nights but now I try to enjoy them by going out and doing something. I don't care what it is as long as I can get out and just enjoy myself. I don't mind staying in either as long as its with someone special and not by myself 😏
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I have a super sweet side to me that's really cheesy 🧀
You should message me if
Message me if you know what you want and are willing to be honest with me about it.

I am tired of girls who say they're down to hang out and be casual when they want to get married. I am tired of being taken for a ride by girls who just want to be bought expensive things and fuck sometimes when it is I that would like something meaningful.

If you want something serious, tell me. If you want to fuck once in a while, tell me. If you aren't sure, tell me.

If I know, I can decide whether I want to be part of it. I want all those things sometimes too (and some times they change), but this cycle of hurting and being hurt and wasting time just goes on and on when people aren't forthcoming.
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