Sometimes people come into your life and you know right away that they were meant to be there...to serve some sort of purpose, teach you a lesson or help figure out who you are or who you want to become. You never know who these people may be, but when you lock eyes with them, you know at that very moment that they will affect your life in some profound way. And sometimes things happen to you that may seem horrible, painful and unfair, but in reflection you realize that without overcoming those obstacles you would have never realized your potential, strength, willpower or heart. Everything happens for a reason. Nothing happens by chance or by means of good luck. Illness, injury, love, lost moments of true greatness and sheer stupidity...all occur to test the limits of your soul. Without these small tests, life would be like a smoothly-paved, straight, flat road to nowhere. Safe and comfortable, but dull and utterly pointless. The people you meet affect your life. The successes and downfalls that you experience can create who you are, and the bad experiences can be learned from. In fact, they are probably the most poignant and important ones. If someone hurts you, betrays you or breaks your heart, forgive them because they have helped you learn about trust and the importance of being cautious to whom you open your heart. If someone loves you, love them back unconditionally, not only because they love you, but because they are teaching you to love and open your heart and eyes to little things. Make every day count. Appreciate every moment and take from it everything that you possibly can, for you may never be able to experience it again. Talk to people you have never talked to before, and actually listen. Hold your head up because you have every right to. Tell yourself you are a great individual and believe in yourself, for if you don't believe in yourself, no one else will believe in you. Create your own life and then go out and live it.
Music - I'm not really picky with music. I usually listen to music at the gym so it's mostly hardcore or workout stuff. Outside the gym it's mostly classic rock.
Food - I love finding new places to eat. I enjoy exploring mom and pop restaurants.
2. Job and money
I am tired of girls who say they're down to hang out and be casual when they want to get married. I am tired of being taken for a ride by girls who just want to be bought expensive things and fuck sometimes when it is I that would like something meaningful.
If you want something serious, tell me. If you want to fuck once in a while, tell me. If you aren't sure, tell me.
If I know, I can decide whether I want to be part of it. I want all those things sometimes too (and some times they change), but this cycle of hurting and being hurt and wasting time just goes on and on when people aren't forthcoming.