60 Olympia, United States
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My self-summary
Most nights you can find me rockin to new country with line dancing. Right now I line dance 5 days a week. Mostly downtown Olympia. Great fun and keeps me out of trouble!

My family is very important to me, that would be something I would like to share with someone special but that is way down the road. I have 4 grandkids whom I love to spend time with. Family is what life is all about. But that is not to say I don't like the 'ME' time or definitely the 'US' time. I believe there is still that special someone out there that will shake up the dance floor, or we can just cuddle and sway with the music, share some spirits, share the good days, the bad days and the those lazy days where we just sit relax and enjoy the moment. Looking for my best friend, my co-pilot, my lover, my soulmate, that special man I can share my dreams, my fears, the good, the bad, the smooth, the rough, someone I can lean on but someone that isn't too proud to lean on me when he needs it.

I have a wonderful job with regular business hours. I haven't seen much of what Washington has to offer but that is a goal for this year. I don't want to wake up some morning and have a list of "I wish I had tried". I'm a pretty laid back person, love to laugh and be with people, although at first I can be a little shy.

Someone recently asked me what I'm looking for. I'm not sure but I'll know when I find him. It'll feel like "home". I'm looking for someone that makes me feel special, cherished, someone that makes me laugh and BE ALIVE. Like Kenny Jackson's song, You Are My Lady. Just thinking about makes a lady want to sway with the music and cuddle. I take care of myself, trying to get the old body back in shape. If you are looking for Barbie, don't shop here. I clean up real nice, love my heels, but just as nice in a pair of jeans and boots. Just a lady with old fashion values with a twist of modern kicked in to make life exciting.

I'm not looking to be fixed or controlled and I will give you the same respect. I've been sitting on the side lines for too long and now I'm ready to jump back into the pool. I'm not looking for pen pals, not looking for friend with benefits, I'm looking for a friend that could possibily turn into something special.

People talk about baggage, yes I have baggage, don't take it with me but we all have it. Its what helped me become who I am, a survivor, a well educated, independent, funny, passionate, woman, mom, nana, and friend. Lets give it a whirl.

I have a list of rules that I try to follow throughout my life, I build more rules as life happens. Lets see if we can build on those rules together.

Rule 1: I don't shop in someone else's backyard. (So if you are married, separated or committed relationship, sorry I'm not your lady)
Rule 2: DOES NOT share her man.
Rule 3: Don't share the personal stuff. (What I will and will not do is not for public or online business, just me and my lover)
Rule 4: Never say I Love You unless you mean it
What I’m doing with my life
Line dancing, work and gym, Boy do I need to expand a little more. Life is an adventure and I'm ready for it.
I’m really good at
Laughing, being there for family and friends.
The first things people usually notice about me
I'm short, laugh a lot and my blue eyes
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books - James Patterson, JD Robb, Nora Roberts
Music - new country, rock,
Shows - NCIS, Castle, NCIS LA, mostly cops shows where good wins over evil, right beats wrong, and the good guys always win.
Food - almost anything
The six things I could never do without
Friends and Family
Freedom to do whatever I want
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Not taking things, life for granted. How I don't want to just "settle" for someone.

I think about :Life, love and how priorities and simple pleasure change as we mature. (gosh I hate that word), my future.

Wondering how the hell dating has gotten crazy. Dating is hard enough but add internet, now I feel old. I keep wondering why the hell am I doing this.
On a typical Friday night I am
Friday night is downtown Olympia at Big Whisky. YES, I can make room for other important things in my life. I fit the gym time in but more reasonable. Now I want to spend time enjoying family, friends and seeing if there really is someone special out there.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
A lady needs to keep somethings a secret
You should message me if
I'm looking for someone that can give me more than 1 or 2 hours a week or so a month. We need to communicate and discover if there is a connection.

You want to see what kind of dust we can kick up, here is how I see my life:

There might be a little dust on the bottle
But don't let it fool ya about what's inside
There might be a little dust on the bottle
It's one of those things that gets sweeter with time

You game?