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My self-summary
I do real.
I enjoy being surrounded by real people.
"Real" means not to mask neither one's desires nor shortcomings, possibly the noblest form of courage.
I'm attached to life, I love to explore with my body and mind, I am fond of those magic (yet rare) moments of meaningful connection with other people.
I'm constantly looking for intellectual stimulation: nothing energizes me more than a deep conversation with a "light" tone, meaning with sense of humor and occasional laughter.
Conversely, I cannot stand "safe", generic chit-chat for too long, sorry!
I believe in the virtuous circle of freedom and responsibility.
Years ago, my life changed when I discovered polyamory and this is the way I chose to live my relationships.
I have found a deep, beautiful, meaningful love here and we are now in an open, rich and blissful relationship.
I am open to discover new and interesting people: authenticity and a lively brain are what I value the most.
What I’m doing with my life
Currently working in the video-game industry and liking it, raising a kid part-time, spending time with my love, practicing some yoga.
I’m really good at
Planning holidays.
The first things people usually notice about me
On the physical side: they say my eyes, but I'm sure it's my nose :-)
Personality-wise: it's hard to tell, but I guess (hope?) they see a combination of niceness and honesty.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
"The Ethical Slut" (D. Easton, Janet W. Hardy) - A bible for a new approach to sexuality and relationships.
"The Island" (Aldous Huxley) - The utopia of Pala, the island that represents the world as it could be if we were only a bit wiser.
Lonely Planet travel guides - Any country; my ideal bookshelf has them all!
"Consciousness: An introduction" (Susan Blackmore) - A great, comprehensive and witty journey around the world's most fascinating topic.
"The Art of Loving" (Erich Fromm) - Lucid and powerful words of wisdom.
"Sapiens" (Yuval Harari) - Eye-opening perspective on the history of our species.
"Sex at Dawn" (Christopher Ryan, Cacilda Jethá) - A paradigm shift in how we view the sexuality of apes and, therefore, our own.

"Waking Life"
"The Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind"
"Los Amantes del Círculo Polar" ("Lovers of the Arctic Circle")
"Spring, Summer, Fall, Winter... and Spring"
"The Matrix"
"Lola Rennt" ("Run Lola Run")
"Blade Runner"
"The Rocky Horror Picture Show"

Massive Attack, Morcheeba, Idan Raichel, Franco Battiato, Kraftwerk.
Some time ago I fell in love with intelligent techno and I sometimes enjoy long nights of dancing to its beats...

Sushi, Italian, chocolate and anything cooked with quality ingredients and love.
Trying to be more and more aware of the origin and ethics of the food I buy.
The six things I could never do without
Sense of humor.
The internet.
Erotic shops.
Meaningful conversations.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Psychology, travel destinations, my love, states of consciousness, the meaning of reality, desire and how patriarchy is more or less subtly still everywhere.
On a typical Friday night I am
I spend one Friday night out of two with my kid.
The other one I may have a dinner out, watch a movie, dance in a club or have an "insight night" (ask me if you want to know what it is)...
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I occasionally enjoy dancing wildly by myself in my room.
You should message me if
One or more of the following applies:
You are polyamorous or at least you're interested in it.
You have a conversation fetish.
You enjoy discovering new states of consciousness.
You are a feminist.
You think romantic is wrong.