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My self-summary
. RESIST!!! Where the heck is Springport, Indiana?
Curious, playful, open, appreciative, intuitive, attentive and avid book
reader, generous, animal loving, mischievous, progressively joyfully political, nature walker and gardening fanatic filled with wonderment, appreciation and gratitude for a life filled with many many blessings and the great gift of loving friends and family. .INFP / INTP on the Meyer-Briggs and does this EVER fit accurately

I enjoy quotes that demonstrate shared values, creative thinking and playfulness. "Lions and tigers and bears, oh my!" Here are several of my favorites ...

...What greater thing for two human souls than to feel they are joined...to strengthen each other...to be with each other in silent spoken memories - George Eliot, English novelist (1819-1880)

...My spirituality is love, kindness, awe, compassion and truth.(Thanks, Dancinglight)

...." I care not much for a man's religion if his dog and cat are not the better for it." - Abraham Lincoln

I adore trees and enjoy travel. and Trevor Noah.

Lifelong educator and educator trainer. Lived and worked in Michigan. North Carolina, California, Montana, Texas, and overseas as Peace Corps Training Director in 6 European and Asian countries. Taught and provided workshops on Youth Developmental Issues and Experiential Education in 38 states. Semi-retired and mainly writing, gardening, and providing a place of comfort and mischief for Benny the cat. (Benny is generally recognized, by kitty experts in the know, as the greatest feline of all time.)

I have been " perfectly sighted'' for the last 5 years after several years of blindness – a period I now see as a blessing. Among other things, it gave me a far greater appreciation of music.

"We are not what we know, but what we are willing to learn."
- Mary Catherine Bateson
What I’m doing with my life
"The best way to find yourself is to lose yourself in the service to others." - Gandhi

Tending to my son, kitty, and gardens. Writing about my time living and working in China, Russia, Poland, Mongolia, Slovakia and Hungary, teaching and consulting for the Peace Corps. Add some volunteer activity, spiritual play, and flexibility work; my half full cup is overflowing. I also travel and spend part of my winters in Temple Terrace, Florida

"Travel is fatal to prejudice, bigotry and narrow-mindedness."
- Mark Twain
I’m really good at
"If you want others to be happy be compassionate. If you want to be happy be compassionate." - Dalai Lama
Being in the Present
Non-judgmental stances
Listening and thoughtful consideration
Touch stuff
Intimacy and sharing
Doing after meal clean-up
Honoring pets and kids in meaningful ways, that THEY enjoy
Dignifying creativity and effort in relationship building
The first things people usually notice about me
"What we choose changes us....What we love transforms us."
- Jan L, Richardson."

Amazing cat BENNY
My gardens

My appreciation of Trevor Noah
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
"All religion. art and science are branches of the same t
K.D. Lang...a voice for the ages. Coan brothers films are right up there. My long term love affair with ethnic foods is the stuff of epic legend.

Pema Chodron, Rumi, Emerson, Jon Stewart, House, The Invitation, Freakonomics, Jodi Foster, Lady Gaga, Gregory Bateson , Will Rodgers, Monet, Bach, Phantom of the Opera, Jeff Bridges, Kurt Vonnegut, Madame Butterfly, Stephen Colbert, Dylan, Chopin, Beatles, Cat Stevens, Pink Floyd, Meryl Streep, Tom Hanks, Kate Hepburn, Casablanca, King's Speech, Van Gogh, Mozart, James Taylor, Mark Twain , Red Hot Chili Peppers, of my secret honey, Rachel Maddow of MSNBC. And naturally, now I would include Trevor Noah,
Six things I could never do without
Family and dear friends ( movie and bookstore time with my son )
Progressive thought, action and discussion
The Arts
Nature and outdoor activity
Sweet loving touch
The wonderful experience of working and living overseas in China, Russia, Poland, Hungary, & Slovakia. Life changing lessons for sure
I spend a lot of time thinking about
How amazingly fortunate I have been and am.
On a typical Friday night I am
Visiting with friends, working out, reading, attending movies, or painting pinecones.

Sometimes I stay up so late, that I have my morning coffee before I go to bed.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I will whisper that gem in person if we connect ,or for a box of warm and yummy oatmeal cookies if we don't . Hey , I am NOT easy!( Okay maybe just a little easy ). If Trump makes any attempt to grab my pussy Benny the Wonder Cat I will gouge his eyes out and set his hair on fire.
You should message me if
....You care deeply and passionately about environmental, human rights and animal rights issues. You love movies, theater and keep up on current events and are savvy related to social and justice issues. Yo
enjoy slow, soft and long term kissing activity! You like to laugh, are witty, and can be a bit silly at times. You believe that "special love moments" are not just for the young, but help keep one young at heart. You can take losses at Scrabble with good humor. You have sustained long term relationships with integrity and have close friends of both sexes. You love nature and are a life nurturer. You enjoy long walks or bicycling, and are fit. You are progressive in your thinking and appreciate diversity in people, culture, and spirituality. Appreciation of Buddhism a plus.

You would enjoy quality conversations with a guy who does not have all the answers, does not have to have the last word, and is not interested dating for dating's sake, but is seeking a long-term exclusive relationship. Sapiosexual soul for sure!
The two of us