29 White Plains, United States
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My self-summary
Well for starters, my name's Ben. I'm a straightforward guy, but that doesn't mean I'm an asshole. I'm an old school guy who's convinced was born in the wrong time period, or planet for that matter. Some people say I'm too kind for my own good, but I guess they would say that when they're running around hurting other people... But I guess that's neither here nor there. I'm supposed to be talking about myself. Well if you're still interested, here goes!

I'm pretty fun loving, I love both intelligent conversation and idle chit chat and I love sports. Basketball's my one true love in that category though, but I like to nerd out and read a good comic every once in a while. I'm really friendly, easy to approach and I don't ever judge. Just looking for a cool person to kick it with, so let me know when you wanna talk and I'll give you my number. Don't be shy!
What I’m doing with my life
Currently on the way to finishing my masters in education. Taking a slight break from it to attempt salvaging what's left of my social life. #sarcasm
I’m really good at
Sports! I love to watch/play just about every kind of sport, but I absolutely LOVE basketball. I'm 6'5, so I gotta put my height to good use, right? Anyway, I'm also good at giving advice, and I'm great with kids. Must be because they mistake me for a jungle gym or something...
The first things people usually notice about me
Probably my height. 6'5, remember?
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Any book that can hold my interest for more than 10 minutes is good enough for me. I love all types of music from different eras, but I like old school rap and metal a lot. Soul is up there on the music charts as well.

I'm a big kid at heart so I still love a few cartoons. Rick and Morty and Archer are two of my favorites! I spend time reading a lot, mix my nerdy nature into it and as a direct result I love reading mangas and tons of comics as well. More of a DC guy than a Marvel guy though. I also enjoy mystery novels quite a bit!

I like watching Netflix original series like jessica Jones and daredevil, but I also enjoy a little discovery channel to help inspire my next adventure. (Travel network is my second love if all things nerdy were my first!)
The six things I could never do without
Hmmmm.... My phone, Friends, Basketball, Food (I'm a fatass at heart even though my body says otherwise), music and bromance.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
The future, definitely. Trying to shape it to be as comfortable as I possibly can make it, but aside from that it's finding someone who I can kick it with.
On a typical Friday night I am
Probably working, I know it sounds boring but on the rare times I actually have off on a friday night, I'm just trying to see what I can get into.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
As uncomfortable as this question is, I guess the most private thing I'm willing to admit is that I'm a true romantic. I believe in love at first sight and I've been burned a couple of times, but that doesn't stop me from believing.
You should message me if
You should message me if you're looking for any of the things I'm looking for, or if you're just a friendly person looking for another friendly person to chill with, or if you're not a psycho. Also message me if you're serious about keeping in touch, I'm tired of reaching out to half assed, insecure women. Confidence is always a plus when dealing with me ;-)