34 Brighton, United Kingdom
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My self-summary
Hello OkCupid peeps!

I'm friendly and explorative. I love nature, music, inner and outer space. Making things and doing things.
What I’m doing with my life
Working at being me on purpose.

Listening to people and being surprised, joining future zen study groups and general larking about.

Meditation, exercise, and all that jazz.

I work freelance at a university, make and perform puppets and create things for theatres, festivals and venues.

I dance and play and learn and am inspired by wonderful people I'm lucky to know.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
What do you think about writing out these things? It always feels a bit weird to me... Your Mum.

Some Musics: PJ Harvey, Sparks, Nina Simone, Sun Ra, Can, Chic, Rotary Connection, Leonard Cohen, KLF, Venetian Snares, Talking Heads, Silver Apples, David Bowie.

Some Books: Kurt Vonnegut, David Mitchell, Douglas Adams, Robert Anton Wilson, Gabriel Garcia Marquez. Vaneigem's Revolution of Everyday Life.

Movies: New Star Wars was all wonderful to me.

Shows: Don't watch much regular telly although sometimes to be friendly with my flatmates. I do the laptop on demand thing though so... Finally getting through Twin Peaks (oh my!), enjoy documentaries and a bit of Davey A, Stupid youtube weirds, Stewart Lee, Chris Morris. Love the muppets, and am a bit suspicious of those that don't.

Food is good - in general - love cooking, love eating when it's cooked well. Vegan more often than not these days but eat all sorts on occasion too. Like to be aware of what I'm eating, but adaptable and adventurous. Got a food suggestion? Try me!
The six things I could never do without
Loved ones, chipping in with regards to making the world around us, odd encounters that last a minute or a lifetime, noticing the wonder, joy and weirdness in things, having a chuckle and being grateful for it...
I spend a lot of time thinking about
The ways we construct what we experience - the frames and narratives - to make sense of it somehow. Pattern recognition. Play.

How to shift power relations in the world and how to shift how we think and operate.

People are endlessly fascinating.

I am comfortable in my own company. I am also open for more intimacy in my life again right now, which feels like a joy and a part of being human.

Enough! Let's find somewhere to go dancing.
On a typical Friday night I am
Out and about somewhere here or somewhere else, or in with my pet rabbit Smudge.
You should message me if
You fancy getting to know me, perhaps over a drink.

You're up for adventure with someone new.

You think it could be fun to get to know each other.

You're up for forming new connections and think it could be great if one was me.

You're open minded about what that might be but curious about how deep it could run.

Your innermost voice tells you to.

You want to find out more...