I like my career without loving it. I am entrepreneurially focused and want to have a life filled with as much freedom as possible for me and those who close to me.
If you're nerdy, open minded, physically active, love traveling, happily identify as "kinky," and love attending/performing at cultural events you should message me.
I haven't been in a monogamous relationship in four years and I don't see that completely changing but I am looking for a life partner that I can build something with. I'm open minded on the specifics of how open/non-monogamous I would be with that person. I'm willing to experiment and negotiate if we happen to have a connection that is worth working for.
I believe that relationships can be a lot of work but they shouldn't be "hard." Even in difficult times a good relationship should still have aspects that push people together and those aspects should be obvious to everyone involved. So... I'm up for all that.
I publish books on Kindle right now. Some of them I write and others I don't. I'm trying to find the right balance of fun and profitability. I'm trying some other online entrepreneurship ideas, mostly based around how much I travel.
I love adventures- I've spent about half of the last decade living outside the US (East Europe, East Asia, and Latin America) and, fortunately, am pretty good at communicating in other languages.
My shoulders also get a lot of compliments.
My favorite books, in no particular order would probably include: The Aubrey-Maturin novels, Les Miserables, The Dark Tower series, Guns, Germs, and Steel, A Hero of Our Time, and The Culture series by Iain M. Banks. I also love non-fiction travel writing.
I love all different sorts of food. I lived in East Asia for three years and, unfortunately, that ruined American-Chinese food for me. I also love Japanese food, Middle Eastern food, Korean food, and spicy/strong things.
The performing arts
Friends who know when I'm joking
I also wonder why women who are "strictly monogamous" "like" me on this site.
In the last few months the phrase "If I have kids..." has slid out of my mouth more than once. I haven't figured out how I feel about that yet.
... you've ever dressed up as a superhero(ine) for Halloween (or would like to!)
... you like science fiction.
... you are truly independent and take responsibility for your own happiness.