I don't like most of the questions that OKC offers and in fact believe that most of this biz is best discussed in person.
When I meet up with someone, I like to do an activity of some sort (whether it's drinking coffee or going for a hike) and then we talk and we figure out what we want from other people at that moment -- and if those things line up, we look into making them come true.
I don't think it needs to be much more complicated than that :)
o) I am currently happily relationshipped with a lovely lady who is my 'primary'. We have an open relationship, and like to share nights with new friends :)
o) I like girls and boys and those outside or between or above or below the spectrum
o) I will be honest with you about what I want (or don't), and expect the same from you -- it's easier that way!