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My self-summary
• Isn't it amazing how you get better at everything in life as time goes by, except for dating? Sometimes I feel like Okcupid's version of Benjamin Button.
• My idea of a great evening is sharing dinner, a bottle of red wine and maybe some live music. Though drinking champagne in a hot tub with a view of the ocean is ok, too.
• What I’m listening to right now: John Doe's latest, Lucinda Williams, Neko Case, King Buzzo, Chelsea Wolfe, Otis Taylor, M. Ward, Dylan.
* I like books. And bookstores like Green Apple on Clement and The Last Bookstore in LA.
*Watching Iggy Pop at Burger Boogaloo this year made me feel like a kid again.
* I enjoy film. Any Wes Anderson film. Melancholia is another favorite. The Film Noir festival at the Castro Theater is always great.
• Despite being "smart" and a decent writer, I'm a so-so Scrabble player. :-( If you are a Scrabble-freak, and can't compromise, forget it.
What I’m doing with my life
Trying to be a good son, brother, friend, lawyer, member-of-the-community, etc. And trying to locate the love of my life, or at least someone fun to hang out with.
I’m really good at
I make a mean cioppino. And pretty good hummus.
The first things people usually notice about me
No idea. Hopefully, my charm and wit. Probably my sexy smokey blue eyes. :-) Ok, maybe not.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
See bullets above. Delillo's "White Noise" is way up there. I grew up reading a lot of Kurt Vonnegut. Good or bad, he's largely to blame for my sense of humor.
Six things I could never do without
My family
A friend to talk to
A good book
Good wine
Fruit and veggies
I spend a lot of time thinking about
What it's all about? And what can I do in smalls ways to make things better?
On a typical Friday night I am
Could be anything. If it was a tough week, I might be at home reading with a glass of wine. Or I might be at a live music venue. Or out to dinner with a friend.
You should message me if
You're a nice, intelligent woman looking for someone fun to hang out with and make plans with. You're looking for love, but wouldn't complain if your heart skipped a beat or two now and then.
The two of us