39Milpitas, United States
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My self-summary
Before you read any further, let me be honest and upfront. I might not be the most handsome nor do I have a rocking body like some of my cohorts here, but I do have a lot to offer in establishing friendship and hopefully later in a more meaningful relationship. As you will read later. I am truly a shy person, and try my best to break out my shell of insecurities. If you are able to go beyond the physicality then do read on...

I have come to a point in my life that I want to raise a family, and grow old with someone. Someone who I can have both an emotional and intellectual connection with. I do like someone who is well-rounded spiritually and culturally. It doesn't matter to me what your educational achievement, or profession is. What makes a person so attractive is that his confidence lies not in his good-looks or material wealth, but how he treats people in his life. The relationships he forges with those he meets. Also what makes a person so attractive is someone who obviously is good-looking but is unaware of it!

I am the oldest in the family and was raised by my Mum. Being raised in a close-knit single parent household, I have come to embody the values of loyalty and commitment. Since my parents divorced and my father passed away in my early twenties, I have stood in as the pseudo dad in the family. I am thankful to see the support that I have given my siblings both emotional and financially came into fruition in their careers and relationships.

I am also blessed that there was no need for me to have that weird "coming out" moment with my family. I guess they knew and in their own way expressed love and support. They truly believe that after all I have done, now it's my turn to be loved, a thing that I have yet to experience outside my family and friends.

My fave quote, "Love is the force that transforms and improves the Soul of the World. - Paul Coelho from "The Alchemist."
What I’m doing with my life
I am currently looking to enrich my professional, academic, and of course my social / love life...I am looking for a better paying job, maybe take my Master's or new degree. I also am trying new fun stuff that I don't typically do like go-karts, zip-lining, wall-climbing. Someday I wanted to try the shooting range, paint-balling, and sky-diving.
I’m really good at
Alot of my friends come to me to talk life in general from relationships between friends, family, bf or gf to dreams and goals in life and ask for my thoughts and insights.
The first things people usually notice about me
People say that I am a snob or intimidating when they first meet me but glad that they got to know me because I am quite the opposite...in reality I am just shy guy! =)
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
The Alchemist by Paulo Coelho, Last Lecture by Randy Pausch, and The Five People You Meet in Heaven by Mitch Albom. I also subcribe to GQ, because I like to be a stylist someday like Tim Gunn, Clinton Kelly, Stacy London, or Rachel Zoe.
Six things I could never do without
1) My faith
2) The support of my family
3) My phone
4) My Music
5) My dreams (it motivates me to move forward)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
about love and people...in general.
On a typical Friday night I am
1) Serving at my church group.
2) With family
3) With my friends
4) Catching up with my shows online
You should message me if
You want to 1) someone who you can talk to over coffee, 2) want's to try out restaurants, or 3) someone who willing to be in a LTR.
The two of us