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My self-summary
OK ! Does anyone like filling this part in because I sure don't . I think the easiest way to get to know who someone is you have to ask questions . So I guess I will start with the basics
I am 34 yrs old and mother of 3. My son is 18 and my twin daughters are 7. I work hard raising my children and taking care of my home but I am missing that man in my life. My person!
I am very laid back so I can find the fun in almost anything. I am kind, considerate, sincere and genuine. I am looking to meet someone with great qualities, a true gentleman that is rough around the edges and see where it could lead. I am ultimately looking for a LTR. Must like children
I feel the need to add this to my profile because my time is important as well as yours so please don't waste yours or mine if:
You are looking for FWB, one night stand, or anything along those lines .... I'm not interested .
Thank you!xoxo

There are many things we may settle for in life: the meal that has fewer calories, the bad job in the right city or maybe the clothes on the sale rack. The one thing we should never settle for, however, is love.

There are many average things in life, but love should not be one of them. Through the masses of mediocre, common and run-of-the-mill things that we experience day by day, love should certainly defy them all.

We should never settle for someone who could walk away and not turn back. We should never settle for someone who doesn’t recognize what he is holding when embracing our hands or someone who doesn’t remind us every day of how much we mean to him.

What you truly deserve, well, is everything.

What you deserve is someone missing you the moment you walk out the door, even if you’ll only be gone a moment.

You deserve someone who may not believe in fairytales, but who treats you like a princess simply because that’s what you are to him.

You deserve someone who will challenge you instead of just giving in. Someone who will share his honest thoughts with you because you’re going to share your honest lives together; yet, someone who knows how to forgive and to be happy instead of right.

You deserve that epic passion that “50 Shades of Grey” doesn’t even cover: a spark that never goes dim, eyes that only turn to you and the need to feel your touch whenever you’re around. You deserve a passion that awakens your inner being and intertwines your hearts into one.

You deserve to always feel wanted, to never doubt for a moment how your significant other feels about you.

You deserve to never waver for a second that the future consists of you together, both looking forward. You deserve the safety that encompasses you like a wave, sometimes in a swell, but forever coasting.

You deserve every birthday remembered and every holiday embraced. You deserve effort behind any gift, even if it’s a flower picked up from the sidewalk on the way home.

You deserve a thought behind every word, especially when saying goodbye. You deserve letters, notes and Post-Its that remind you how special you are to him on any given day.

You deserve to be held with tenderness. You deserve that earth-shattering kiss; the one that you need to stay alive and the one that is your sole nourishment for survival.

It breaks all bounds and you lose yourself in it every time. Your mind can’t find the difference between present, past and future because in that moment, time does not exist. You’re adrift between the taste of love and the feeling of forever.

You deserve to be introduced to friends as if you were the rarest thing on earth. You deserve to be brought into a room with pride in hand that he is so blessed to be standing beside you.

You deserve someone who would always choose the seat next to you and would never need to brag about how lucky he is because anyone could see it clearly in his face when he looks at you.

You deserve something that isn’t easy; a love that is hard, but you tough it out together. You learn through your battles and you start to fight them together.

You stand your ground, but you stand beside each other doing so. You deserve to be tested in your limits because it’s at the edge where you discover the greatest faith.

You deserve a true and epic love, nothing short of the above. You deserve to be someone’s dream come true, never someone’s afterthought. You deserve to walk on air and walk on fire at the same time because the very best things in life are not easy.

Yes, you deserve it all, but that person out there in the world deserves it, too. He deserves the girl in his arm to encompass everything he ever wanted.

You yourself must justify the love you think you deserve. So be the person that deserves the world, and the world will bring you that love.

My flaws: I wear my heart on my sleeve which can be a flaw and a quality
I can be impatient at times
I tend to use ... a little to much
I have some insecurities (but who doesn't)
I have a lot more that I find everyday
The goods:
I am kind ,considerate, compassionate, sarcastic, loyal ,driven and honest
I believe family is important
I am a lover not a fighter
I have learned a lot from past relationships , what was good and what was bad . I can be serious at times but love to joke around and keep people laughing . I like all kinds of music from classical and opera to hip hop and country . I love anything historical and I Google ALOT. I love to expand on things I know and learn about things I don't . I don't judge anyone that is not my place . I am at a point in my life where I want to be surrounded by positive people and I am open to Platonic friends ,dating with the possibilitie of a LTR . I have never been to a concert ,only been to 4 states 2 of them I was just passing thru .I have a list of goals and I will meet them one day at a time . I am not perfect would never claim to be just wonder if there is a perfect someone for me . Well think that covered the basics . Just ask if I left anything out
What I’m doing with my life
Making the best of everyday
Repurpose items or restoring furniture
Enjoying my children and family
I’m really good at
Making people laugh with my quick witted sarcasm
The first things people usually notice about me
My hair and my eyes
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
History! !!especially English history I have been reading fiction and non fiction books on the Tudor period for 10 yrs
I'm a bit of a nerd I guess
Six things I could never do without
I spend a lot of time thinking about
How to better myself personally, physically, mentally
On a typical Friday night I am
Spending time with family ,friends, relaxing or working
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I sing in my car (can't hit a note to save my life so I keep the windows up)
You should message me if
I'm not a mind reader if you view my profileand you want to get to know me just say hello ....all good things start with a hello
Don't message me if :
You are looking for friend with benefits, booty call or one night stand
Don't waste your time or mine with messages ,number exchanges and time out of our lives to meet only for you to be disappointed let's face it no one handles disappointment well !
The two of us