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My self-summary

The first thing you should know about me is that I'm not actually a drag queen as my profile picture suggests but I am a total geek (or know it all - depending on your perspective - which is probably based upon the who wants to shag who and how much directive). Not a WOW, or War Hammer geek though. Put your tongue back in your mouth and your 12 sided die away! I mean that I like real intellectual pursuits. I like understanding the cutting edge of topics and discussing philosophy at length, with people who have good vocabulary. I read New Scientist and am about 6 months away from completing a PhD researching Amazonian Shamanism in Britain. Maybe i'm a nerd, or a dork. Not sure, but I am definitely sapiosexual. I also suffer ennui when people mistake dominance with intellect. It's a well played record but in my experience I have found that many men struggle to accept a woman of intellect. Great as a teacher, or GP, but not as a missus. So please be the exception. Let's share. Sharing's great.

It seems I keep striking up great conversation with great guys and just abandoning them as my life gets in the way and I forget to return to my profile. I do want to date - honestly - I just keep forgetting to. Sorry you really are going to have to make an impact. Demanding aren't I? Online dating is too easy otherwise.

I try to keep fit and cycle a lot. I watch ALL the films. Don't own a TV. Have no idea if shamanism has any answers. I have a Kitty Douche Bag. I'm a liberal but not a hippy. I'm a hippy but not a liberal. I don't believe things are so clear cut. I like Deleuze but think he was a cunt. I swear a lot in social situations and think people who don't appreciate swear words as the illustrative crayons they are, are complete twatting bell ends. It is the intent that should cause offence not a collection of graphics/phonics in and of them self.

I've kinds given up hope of having a family now. In part I blame the government. In part my poor life choices - mostly made because of the government. I think Jeremy Corbyn should be Prime Minister and shape the country in my vision. For me.

I spent years trying to be perfect in spirit/character. Now I think fuck it, there was nothing wrong with your over opinionated foul mouth in the first place. Some people need to be told they are a cunt. Trying to be angelic causes you to repress such things, which in turn causes more harm. See nothing is simple.

So it's firmly established, i'm an arrogant, snobbish, sweary, offensive, contradictory twat who has no hope of starting a family and over complicates things. Don't date me.
What I’m doing with my life
Studying a PhD, part time.
Blogging and writing about academia.
Working as an Admin assistant despite almost daily reminders that I should be doing much more with my time.
Some community work.
Playing my guitar for no good reason other than I want to.
Attempting to understand consciousness, spirit and the question to which 42 is the answer.
I’m really good at
Coming up with elaborate and ambitious projects, losing hours, thinking of books I'll never write, embarrassing myself over the potential of love, agonising over work only to find a type-o too late, being self critical, talking about my passions to the point I realise I sound like a lecturer, keeping to agreements.
The first things people usually notice about me
That would definitely be the hair colour of the moment. It goes from deep Fuchsia to candyfloss pink and back in a two monthly cycle.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
BOOKS: Art/design, psychology, biographies, Douglas Adams, contemporary fiction,Terry Pratchett, DBC Pierre, Carlos Castaneda. Since taking up research my reading time is spent primarily on related non-fiction (shamanism, DMT, methogologies, philosophy of religion etc).

MOVIES: Eternal sunshine for the spotless mind, Batman, marvel comic adaptations, psychological thrillers, art house, most action, horror, good stoner comedies, The Extraordinary Adventures of Adèle Blanc-Sec (and a good few Luc Besson movies), definitely Christopher Nolan's work, Pi, Primer, Memento, The Prestige, anything with Christian Bale in (except Mary, Mother of Jesus), The Game, Donny Darko, Revolver, Spider, Inception, The imaginarium of Dr Parnassus, Mr Nobody, Cloud Atlas, Lynch, Gilliam, Cubrik, Cronenburg, Fincher. Ex machina is my most favourite watch recently. And Chappie.

MUSIC: Most tunes, in fact anything goes if I am in a good mood: trip-hop, dub step, hip-hop, breaks, metal, jungle, acoustic, reggae, dance hall, soul, blues, rock, alt-rock, Psy-trance etc. Love Incubus, Deftones, Beth Orton, PJ Harvey, Nina Simone, Turin Breaks, Tribe Called Quest, Distillers, Hendrix, Pink Floyd, Bob Dylan, Paul Simon, Gomez, UNKLE, Kate Bush, Dub FX, Muse, Zero 7, Surgeon and then some.

TV: Not much. Whedon stuff, Game of Mother Freaking Thrones!!! Peaky Blinders.

FOOD: My diet is a nightmare. I have type 2 diabetes and have to be ridiculously careful about everything. Essentially I have to eat super healthy. No sugar, no unrefined carbs, and a small amount of complex carbs. Yes it's sucky sometimes. All the time. No I don't expect you to have to eat like me.
The six things I could never do without
Apart from the obvious survival necessities.
Good friends
Mascara (don't judge, I have albino eyelashes! )
My mind and the ability to communicate my thoughts.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
How to fit everything into just one lifetime. How many of you guys put that you are poly on your profile just to see if you can get away with it.
On a typical Friday night I am
Sleeping off the week so I can put all my energy into the weekend.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I got diagnosed with diabetes and it destroyed me for a little while there. All good now though :) apart from the disabled pancreas, and the supremely annoying dietary requirements, and strict medication regime.
You should message me if
If it would divert a major catastrophy. Definitely contact me then.
You have a huge..... wait for it.... bookcase.