We all have a "type," but as I've gotten older (and hopefully wiser), I've learned that the real beauty in people is found in their idiosyncracies and imperfections. Plus, I can't come close to living up to perfection... I'm way too flawed.
One last thing...I'd like to meet someone who has the ability to communicate openly and honestly. This doesn't mean I want to have "a talk" all the time (gawd no... lol), but this is an essential part of any type of relationship. It's funny how we all like to believe we are great communicators, but the truth is that this is not a skill that most people possess.
I love movies and a good tv series. Some of my faves include:
- The Usual Suspects
- The English Patient (especially the scene where he rips off her blouse to ravage her and then they cut to a scene of him sewing her buttons back on... what a crack up!)
- Almost any war movie - Full Metal Jacket was the best & Thin Red Line was the worst!
- The Bourne movies
- Sons of Anarchy
- Boardwalk Empire
- Mad Men
- True Blood
I also love theater. My favorites have been:
- Miss Saigon
- The Jitney
- The Owl and the Pussycat
I love all types of food, but a spicy and sweet combination always hits the spot!
As for music... it all depends on the mood I'm in or the mood I want to be in.
My dog Lola... she's the best!
Good food and wine. I didn't say expensive... I said good
My quiet time... True intimacy is not having to fill the silence
... Oh, and coffee! Shoot... that's seven.