misterlucas
34 Berlin, Germany
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My self-summary
facts about my life:

I quit my job to backpack and couchsurf in various parts of the world
for 8 months when I was 27 after I won a random contest.

I worked for a dissident artist in Beijing and lived there for 10 months, then had to abscond to Switzerland due to rather bizarre circumstances.

I lived in a medieval French village for a year doing an art residency, building a photo darkroom, and renovating a 15th century house.

I am pretty recently (6 months) out of a serious relationship so I'm taking it slow, mostly interested in meeting guys to see if we click and take it from there. I find it best to go into dates without too much expectation.

If you want to know more ask...I'm usually pretty obliging..we are more than the sum of our experiences right? :)

***Moving to Berlin from Brooklyn this Fall***

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"Watch your thoughts for they become words.
Watch your words for they become actions.
Watch your actions for they become habits.
Watch your habits for they become your character.
And watch your character for it becomes your destiny.
What we think, we become."
What I’m doing with my life
making beauty wherever I go, as often as possible...

I'm an artist and also partner of a design business with a friend, if you are curious check us out: www.allthingsdirt.com for design work and my sadly not quite up-to-date art website: lucaslai.com

I love to travel and usually go somewhere off the beaten track every year but also love annual sojourns to my beloved Paris where I lived when I was 21.

Someday...I'd like to do something worthy of giving a TED talk about.
I’m really good at
seeing the silver lining
indulging myself in spontaneous acts of fun and trying new things
being present and sharing
listening to other people's stories
using my passport
The first things people usually notice about me
that I'm very inquisitive...or my hair
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
recent books I read: Life of Pi, The Baron in the Trees, and currently seeking something delectable to read..suggestions? I just picked up a copy of The Catcher in the Rye after watching a Salinger doc and I'm enjoying it so far, having read it a long time ago. I also really love Hesse, Roald Dahl, Nabokov, and Simon Van Booy. I carry a copy of the Dhammapada very often...not because of the Buddhist mantras but because I find it more like poetry.

recent movies I saw: just watched North Sea Texas and really loved the film for the beautiful imagery and poignant story. I went to see the Polish film Ida and was blown away by the cinematography. I also enjoyed Searching for Sugarman (talk about a true story that is so crazy it doesn't seem real!) TABU, Gerhardt Richter Painting, Samsara, Wasteland, Beginners, The Double Life of Veronique, Moonrise Kingdom, and recently re-watched Casablanca (I grew up watching many old films)...I am more of an indy cinema than blockbuster kind of guy, and watch a lot of foreign films and documentaries.

favorite shows: I grew up watching zero tv and only listening to NPR (I listen to a lot of This American Life, TED radio hour, and OnBeing podcasts)...not a snob about it though; its just the reality of my upbringing. In my later years friends did get me into a few random shows...I am prone to sporadically crave Family Guy, the Simpsons, Downton Abbey.

favorite music: I listened to a lot of classical, opera, and jazz growing up, but I've caught up to date and listen to pretty much everything except rap and heavy metal. Have a soft spot for: Mozart, Chopin, Chet Baker, Louis Armstrong, Andrew Bird, Zee Avi, Satie, the xx, scissor sisters. I stream a lot of music which is great except I now have no idea what I'm listening to most of the time.

favorite food: I eat everything, and love it all, except olives. I don't drink much but I adore sake and def have a soft spot for Japanese food
The six things I could never do without
family, friends, freedom, passports, sunlight, serendipitous fun, beauty, learning new things, breaking rules that make no sense
I spend a lot of time thinking about
the nature of beauty/the beauty of nature, what is art?
where I want to experience next
On a typical Friday night I am
Typical fridays are rare for me, but mine often include dinner with friends, seeing live music/performance, watching a film, making art, taking a bath, baking, or a combination of all of the above
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
nothing. Anything private doesn't belong on the Internet...
You should message me if
You seek the extraordinary
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