48Newbury, United Kingdom
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My self-summary
I think perhaps a revamp is in order here as this profile is becoming a bit of a novel.

I think we all agree that this part of the site is often the most challenging as you want to give a good account of yourself without posing the question “If this person is such a great, attractive, humorous, kind, loving, romantic and just all round great person, then why are they still single?” You know you have asked that…..

I am balanced enough to know who I am, I don’t need to re-live my youth, I am comfortable with me and really would like the same. That is not to say I am dull and boring, no no no.

I like to laugh and make people laugh (not like a stand up comic or anything); I’m not grumpy in the morning and have all my own teeth (you see a very good order of affairs here).

I am fortunate enough to have grown up in Africa and as such people have said I sound posh…..I don’t “sound” posh, I “am” posh (and that ladies is a poor attempt at bad humour). But for the record I am educated, articulate and good company.

I am more a lover of warmer climates rather than chilly (odd that). I am spontaneous, will make you laugh; will make you cry, will fill you with joy, fill you with frustration but will always be interesting.

I am looking for an equal in life, someone who has a little go in them. I am looking for a relationship not just a play mate. I believe in honesty and am pretty open.

If any of this intrigues you in any way then I would love to hear from you.

Just as a parting shot, if you don't have a picture then there is no point in winking or writing to me. It is a dating site and while personality is hugely important, you have to have an initial physical attraction too.
What I’m doing with my life
Enjoying my own company. Developing my career slowly but surely. Loving my children.
I’m really good at
Photography, music, being me
The first things people usually notice about me
You know I can't say I have asked them but I think perhaps my perceived confidence and humour. Having said that I am going to ask now.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books probably Tom Clancy, Movies, I have a preference towards comedy and food mmmmm Lamb and curry or both combined.
Six things I could never do without
My Children, Music, Me, My Camera, My Freedom, Air
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Making a success of what I do...
On a typical Friday night I am
Either with my children or with a good bottle of red wine listening to music.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
Meet me, know me, ask me
You should message me if
You like what you see.........or read.
The two of us