mmesmerr
45 San Ramon, United States
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My self-summary
I'm eternally curious, wondering about you as you read this right now. Are you looking for me? Or just looking? Or are you curious too? I'm a Bay Area boy with a travel bug -- I'd much rather head for the mountains or the sea shore when I have time off. I'm professionally ambitious and fairly successful in my chosen field.

You are someone who knows yourself well. You prefer to be with a strong, confident man, who will support you, but not smother you.

You are sexually submissive, but that doesn't mean you like to be walked all over.

You prefer someone who is thoughtful and spontaneous, who is intellectually curious, yet loves to have fun.
What I’m doing with my life
Right now, nearly all the puzzle pieces are in place. I'm just looking for you.
I’m really good at
listening. Being creative. Getting silly. Talking to different kinds of people.
The first things people usually notice about me
My smile and my sense of humor. Sometimes it's silly, sometimes intellectual, often wry and I love to laugh at your jokes too.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books by Thoreau. Nearly every kids movie made before 10 years ago. 80s music. Pizza, Chinese, Japanese, Mexican.
The six things I could never do without
Something to write with (I love writing), books, a cup of coffee, a nice view, tennis shoes and probably my iPhone.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
the perfect day.
On a typical Friday night I am
Doing work or trying a new beer with a friend.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I'll tell you in person.
You should message me if
You like long, slow conversations where we get to know each other deeply.
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