34Carlsbad, United States
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My self-summary
First of all, don't expect a long message as an intro if I message you. I'm over wasting my time writing people that never respond. I'll have an actual conversation with you only after it seems its not a waste of time. That being said......I'm the nice guy that girls always wonder about, but never give a chance. That sounds like a pity party, but I've come to terms with it. I have no misconceptions about my flaws and shortcomings, but I'm an excellent boyfriend, and a fairly decent person. I was raised to respect and follow a certain ethical code, and though I've adjusted it to fit my personal beliefs, I do follow it firmly. I don't think there are a lot of people anymore with strong personal character, and I am proud that I am one of the few. I'm smart, quiet, very affectionate and fiercely loyal. I'm chock full of contradictions. Deep down I'm a romantic, but am also very sarcastic and cynical. I love hard, and always end up getting hurt, but I don't know any other way. I'm not an incredibly confident, cocky guy, which may explain why I'm on an internet dating site. I believe that anyone who's honest with themselves can never be a very confident person. If I ever stop being critical of myself, I'm sure I will stop improving. I love cars, building guitars, UFC, and guns, but I also read a lot and follow technology and gadgets pretty closely. I read everything from classical literature to some fantasy stuff to physics research for fun. I'm really into movies and music; I have hundreds of DVDs and about 12,000 songs on my ipod. Right now I work a lot and just finished up my third degree. I love Guinness, Chuck Taylors, aviators, guitars, and other random things. I tend to be rather shy when I first meet people, and I'm always told I'm quiet. I can, however, carry on a meaningful conversation with anyone. I've just found that most people talk a lot, but never say anything. I'd rather be silent than asinine and shallow. I can't say exactly what I'm looking for, but I'll know her when I see her. I'm not a 'casual' dater and I am looking for someone who is serious about a relationship. Music/movie lover is a huge plus. I'm not very good at describing myself, so let me know if you have any questions.
What I’m doing with my life
Working. A lot. Being bored in SE New Mexico. Traveling when I can.
I’m really good at
Learning, remembering, sarcasm, making people laugh, being dependable.
The first things people usually notice about me
I honestly don't know, and not sure how much I care. First impressions aren't my strong suit, I'm more interesting the more you get to know me.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I read a lot, so there are many books I like. Chuck Palahniuk is my favorite, but I read a lot of vast and varied subjects: history, biographies, fiction, fantasy, sci-fi, classics, economics, and political subjects. Everything from Homer to Butcher, and a lot in-between. Love movies, too many to name. I like most all kinds of music: rock, classic rock, jazz, blues, Texas country, post-hardcore, screamo, trance, some dub step, to name a few. It's Always Sunny, Office, Workaholics, Archer, House, Scrubs, Justified, Wilfred.
Six things I could never do without
Audiobooks-how I survive work
Music-also work survival
My car
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Lots of things: work, school, physics, zombie preparation, food, money, day-to-day worries, existentialism, whatever pops into my head. I spend a lot of time in my head and I'm likely to think through whatever happens to lodge itself in there.
On a typical Friday night I am
At a movie or with some of my friends off doing whatever. It varies greatly.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
Just about anything you're willing to ask, I have very little shame.
You should message me if what you see? Isn't that the point of this site? Movie and/or music aficionado a definite plus.
The two of us