I'm a pretty laid back person I think. I try not to think too much about things I cant really control. As in where I should be or shouldn't be at my age, if I am doing everything "right", if I'll be like my mother, lol, those sort of things. I just have to let things happen. They will anyway no matter what I do. I think as long as I continue to make positive actions in my life, I will get to where I need to be. I have thought I had everything figured out so many times and then life comes and turns it all around. Might as well just roll with it. I like to think of my life as a day by day experiment. We'll see what happens....
Every single time I watch "Something about Mary", I laugh like its the first. "Pineapple Express", "Pulp Fiction", "Stand by me", "Knocked up", "Almost Famous", "Forest Gump", "A lot like love". This could go on forever. To sum it up I like smart, sexy, funny, action, scary, edge of your seat, hide in the shoulder of the person your next to, suck back your tears because you dont want to look like an ass, inspiring, mind blowing, magical, cant quite wrap your mind around it the first time, wish you were kissing the one you were watching it with, stick with you, and make you see things in a different way, even if its just for a day, kinda movies.
TV shows: Family Guy, American Dad, Girl Code, Ghost Adventures, Paranormal Witness, Destination Truth, and pretty much anything ghosty. Yep, Im one of THOSE people. I cant help it, I love the paranormal and the unknown. Its like, the last "magical" thing to believe in. No more Santa or the Tooth Fairy. Theres got to be something after this life. Anyway, Also love true crime shows.
Music! Oh so so much. Jazz and Blues. Love it! My heart is in New Orleans and live Jazz and Blues makes my soul sing. One of my all time favorite bands is Red Hot Chili Peppers. Dont even go there, I love them no matter what you say. I love everything from Counting Crows, to Queens of the Stone age to the Doors. I love 90s alternative. I AM known to like what other people call crap, like paramore, fallout boy and shit you would probably hear while shopping in Urban Outfitters.
Food. Well, Unfortunately I recently discovered I have celiac disease. It's really a big deal and very important to me to follow a strict gluten free diet. No f-ing around. It's kind of depressing sometimes because eating out or at someone's house is Almost impossible. So that has been a challenge. However its getting easier. I'm actually pretty grateful. I thought I was dying, really, dying before I found out what was wrong with me. So eating out is tricky. Word of advice: if we go out, and you DARE tell me to just eat a salad, just because you can't be bothered with finding a restaurant that accommodates me, I will stab you in the neck with my fork. That is my biggest pet peeve! YOU eat a salad without dressing and tell me how satisfying that is. Lol. Ive lost friends over such situations. So, I can still eat all my favorite foods, just need it prepared differently. Green chili chicken enchiladas are my favorite. I like weird food too. Ill eat just about anything. If its weird, raw, foreign and most people think its disgusting. Ill eat it and probably like it.
Don't write me if you live out of state! I'm busy! I don't have time or interest in a pen pal. Pointless.
Can't dislike or be allergic to cats.
Other than that!.....
I don’t really have a list of “must haves” and “must not”s. I think when you do that, you deny yourself the opportunity to meet some very wonderful people. It used to be “cant smoke. Can’t like to hunt. Can’t have kids. Yada yada. But I have met men in the past that have one or more of my “must not”s and I fell in love with a few of them and made wonderful friends with most all. So I avoid limiting myself to a certain group.