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My self-summary
Quality over quantity...poetry over perfection...blessings over the bottom, goals, gratitude. Seeking one who truly gets this.

We all have contrasting sides, don't we? The yin-yang of things.
We're not perfect and not even always exactly the same person from moment to moment. Wouldn't it be amazing to find someone who knew this and didn't care; who just understood that and accepted us for who were were at any and all of those moments. Here's to that. Cheers!

Not to be overly serious (I can be silly with the best!)...

Passion is everything. Intelligence, an aphrodisiac.

I can actually communicate, love all of nature, the Moon, Zen, all things celestial, water, the Fall, animals, hiking state and national parks, B&B's, red wine, the warmth of a fire against the coolness and scent of the Fall air, kissing, affection, massage, tubing, picnics, cookouts, fire-works, fireflies, ok, anything on fire, live music, playing guitar, science, philosophy, psychology, paranormal, metaphysics, depth, designing or building anything, green design, the environment, reading, writing, being published, recording, word games, NPR, koi, sustainability, repurposing, a great sense of humor, squirt-gun fights, frisbee, hammocks, scrabble, star/meteor gazing, creativity, sensuality, being spontaneous! And serenity.

I love and am moved by a great conversation, like you, hopefully.
The right words seem to resonate and change you as they echo in your consciousness as you ponder their possibilities and insights. I would love a lifetime of those.

I'm really looking forward to the Fall, my favorite season equal with Spring. I spent a lot of early life up north, so actually know about the seasons other than summer and more summer. Love Lost Maples, Bastrop State park, Barton Creek, Big Bend, Yellowstone, Yosemite, Badlands, NM, AZ, CO, Boulder, Carmel, Sante Fe, Muir Woods...Hill country, the desert, mountains, the coast.

I really like how down to Earth, open, honest, kind and affectionate you are. That really speaks to me and I try always to be the same way. There's really no substitute for (what's) real. Fantasies are great, but I'd love to know who you really are, too.

Some of the things that are important to me include: Intelligence, humor, honesty, stability, creativity, worldliness, positivity, kindness, affection, openness, strength, communication, romance,
sensuality, desire, a true connection and interest in each other, shared interests, and of course chemistry! But there is an x-factor, too, isn't there, maybe beyond chemistry? That mystery. It's hard
to explain but worth trying to find. You know it when you experience it. Do you seek it, too?

There are so many other things I'm interested in... Live music, playing guitar, great (indy) movies, writing music, jazz, rock, blues, soul, funk, a great singer/songwriter, exploring, learning new things, laughter, massage, yoga, adventures, the Fall, Storms, incense, woodsmoke, rain, your perfume, modern design and art, museums, travel/road trips, hiking/biking, home improvement, northern lights, meteor showers, sunsets, great wines, cooking, the coast, mountains, deserts (ok, and desserts). So many amazing places I'd like to visit, like Sedona & BC, some just on a wish list. I'll bet you have one, too.

I'm spontaneous, friendly, creative and have been said to be kind, honest, attractive, intelligent, sensual, fun, a good listener/sense of humor (dry to silly), strong/sensitive, healthy, happy, generous,
curious, affectionate, romantic, spiritual (not religious), unique.

I've blonde hair/blue eyes, non smoker, occasionally drink socially
(imported beer/reds/margarita/martini), height/weight proportionate, healthy, fit, environmentally conscious, have great friends and times and really enjoy life. Very positive for the most
part; the best is yet to come! Always. Live, laugh and love.

Looking forward to your wise, witty response (pressure! just kidding).
What I’m doing with my life
Art/music/design! Lighting design, playing guitar, writing, recording, teaching, saving things from the landfill, home improvement, self improvement, creating, having fun, yoga,
making friends, seeking a brilliant, soulful other half to share it all with.
I’m really good at
Lighting design, music, playing guitar, writing, composing, teaching, home improvement, gardening, road trips, creating, having fun,
being silly, long philosophical conversations, recycling/ repurposing, massage, building fires...Working a hammock. Travel.
The first things people usually notice about me
"Hey, does anyone ever tell you you look like...?

I'll let you guess...

My eyes or smile?
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Infinite Possibilities, A New Earth, Power of Now, A Brief History of time, Deep Survival, A Walk in the Woods, Zen and the art of motorcycle maintainance, lucid living, Tesla, Walden, Sex,Ecology,Spirituality - Ken Wilbur,
various design/art/music journals...

Across the universe, Men in black, Contact, Groundhog Day, Monty python, Shawshank Redemption, The Prestige, Labyrinth, Boondock Saints, 2001, A Beautiful Mind, Blade Runner, Bruce Almighty, 40 Year Old Virgin, Eternal Sunshine, holiday inn, green mile, liar, liar, many more from all eras.

U2, Stones, Tom Petty, Sting, Pat Metheny, Nirvana, Clapton, KT Tunstall, kd Lang, Bonnie Raitt, Joni Mitchell, jeff Beck, Stevie ray Vaughn, The Who, Dave Mathews, Peter Frampton, Otis Redding, Hendrix, Talking heads, James Taylor, B 52's, John Mayer, Seal, Police, Zep, Tull, Kinks, Cream, Yardbirds, Doors, Norah Jones, bela fleck, chili peppers, Theresa Andersson, Beck, Aimee Mann, Maroon 5, Amy winehouse, bill frisell, miles davis, mike brecker, josh redman, eric johnson, many more...

Thai, Indian, Italian, Continental, tapas, food trucks, good coffee, chai tea, imported beer, red wine...then again a good pizza is hard to resist.

TV - not much these days, but when in the mood..Daily Show, Colbert, Discovery, History, nat geo., ancient aliens
The six things I could never do without
Music/movies, connection/love, friends/family, animals, having a home, Being in a hammock watching the stars, learning, Nature!...oops is that 8?
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Design, music, lighting, life, the universe, nature, spirit, growth, life beyond this world, Gaia, gardens, interconnectivity, travel, why people do what they do (psychology)...
On a typical Friday night I am
With friends or playing music or working/creating something...
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I'm a work in Progress.
You should message me if
Anything you've read speaks to you!
If you like intuitive conversation and/or soulful connection.
If you like to laugh.
If you're creative, fun, open minded, talented, intelligent, soulful
If you have something interesting or unusual to share or ask
I'm an open book (w/ a couple of dogearred pages! :)

Miscellaneous: countries I've been to: Germany, Italy, France, Belgium, England, austria, Monaco, switzerland, the caribbean, Canada and most of the continental US.

I had an out of body experience at 8.
I had a near death experience at 10.
Ive seen a UFO...I think
I trust intuition more than ever and have sometimes
Had premonitions that happened very soon after

I believe anything we can imagine we can also create. And do.