29Huntington, United States
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My self-summary
I am spontaneous, and forever trying to fit little adventures into the drudgery of my day to day. People say I have a good sense of humor. I think I just find humor in the human condition. I try to enjoy life as much as possible. I'm a romantic and a realist, which probably just means I'm indecisive. I'm into the arts. Film, photo; hell, take me to an opera any day. I am a conversationalist. I'll talk to just about anyone, and I love finding those nitty gritty secrets. I run through memories like full hour films. I'm pretty average and weird like everyone else.

I'm a parent which is obviously quite a large part of my life. I have a son, he's four, his name is Lua, and he's both the grandest aspect of my existence and the most exhausting.

People seem to want immediate undying love or just sex; I want middle ground. I want to hang out and enjoy you. I want conversation and jokes and easy times.
People either want me to take care of them or follow them about, and I'm not looking to do either.

I'm silly and uncoordinated and generally a mess around anyone I think is great. You should take it as a compliment.
What I’m doing with my life
Wrapping my old brain around new shit, listening to other peoples conversations, raising the most badass individual I know, eating all kinds of killer food, cutting up clothes, driving while listening to music annoyingly loud, dancing in my house alone or otherwise, reaching out to the world, netflix, documentaries (duh), laughing hysterically, searching for the perfect flannel, losing my keys, and my phone, and my purse, being restless(always), porch sitting, problem solving, multi-tasking, trying not to avoid shit, singing my heart out in the car, and the shower, and aisle 4 in the grocery store (the produce gets me every time), painting.
I’m really good at
I'm a very understanding person, though that isn't always a great quality.

I am honest. I hate miscommunication. I want to be as direct as possible.

I'm good at problem solving and battling everyday chaos. I am an emotional person and I empathize well, but I know when it's time to feel and when it's time to just get shit done.

I'm a good parent though it doesn't always feel that way. I couldn't be happier with who he is.
The first things people usually notice about me
I'm quite tall. For some reason this really bothers dudes. If you aren't into Amazon princesses, it ain't me babe. After that, probably my legs or my lips

I wish I knew more about the answer to this question. I'm always interested to know how I appear to the rest of society. I'm pretty clueless.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
No one is going to read this...

Books: Blueschild Baby is my absolute favorite book. It's a shame I've never met another person who has read it. The Shining, the Talisman, Haunted, White Oleander, Death Be Not Proud, The Razor's Edge, Choke, Fear and Loathing.

If you are ever bored and want to watch something new, pick anything from this list.

Movies: Amelie, Moonrise Kingdom, Wetlands, Beetlejuice, Inglorious Bastards, the Dreamers, Downloading Nancy, The Longest Engagement, Requiem of a Dream,Two Days in Paris, Edward Scissorhands,Wristcutters:A Love Story, Love Me If You Dare,Clerks, I've Loved You So Long, Funny Games, Gummo, Clockwork Orange, Julien Donkeyboy, Pi, The Fountain, The Tracey Fragments,Heavenly Creatures, Crash, Hedwig and the Angry Inch,The Breakfast Club, Shrink, White Oleander, The Fall, Hard Candy, Everything is Illuminated, Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind, Fight Club, The Princess Bride, The Heart is Deceitful Above All Things, Elephant, The Diving Bell and the Butterfly( i love french films), Half Nelson, Cake, Hard Candy, The Neverending Story

Music: Punk and Blues are my heart and soul. I honestly love or at least appreciate most music.

Jay Reatard, Mika Mike, Pinback, Otis Redding,Thee Silver Mount Zion Memorial Orchestra and the Tra La La Band, Ray Charles, Basia Bulat, Maria Taylor, [[Tom Waits](is a god), Sigur Ros, Heavy Vegetable, Damien Rice, Marty Robins, the Postal Service, Fiona Apple, Modest Mouse, Hozier,T.S.O.L., Circle Jerks, Etta James, Ray LaMontagne, The Walkmen, Leftover Crack, Billie Holiday, Jay Z, The Yeah Yeah Yeahs, Black Flag,Bad Religion, Ben Harper, Bob Marley, Herbie Handcock, The Black Keys, Tori Amos, The Dresden Dolls, MSI,The Clash, Op Ivy, Arcade Fire, The Cardigans, Radiohead, The Allman Brothers, Marshall Tucker Band, the Beatles, Joni Mitchell, Janis Joplin, the Guthries,Led Zeppelin,

Food: Broccoli is by far my favorite vegetable of all time, and I kinda want red pepper hummus on everything I eat. Fuck green peppers. I like to cook and try new things.
Six things I could never do without
My wee human of course
(If you're the kind of person who is against going barefoot we might not be compatible. It's nearly a deal breaker)
Spontaneous rain dancing/puddle jumping/ star gazing and the like.

6 Things I Could Live Without:
(because I think it should be on here)
Collars on t-shirts
people who cannot appreciate silence
hippie festivals that cost $300
tanning beds
I spend a lot of time thinking about
If my body were as agile and constant as my mind I would look like Cindy Crawford.

I am always trying to think of better ways to deal with existing. I don't really care why I am here or where I will go when I'm not but just how to deal with the day in day out and be happy regardless.
On a typical Friday night I am
Generally I'm finding a friend to pal around with. Good beers, music or a good flick, conversation. I try to go out if someone I like is playing.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I'm not really private. I just understand that not everyone wants to know everything about me. If you ask I will tell.

All dudes say they are laid back. It's probably the most frequently stated phrase on male dating profiles.

I'm anxious most of the time. Most people don't assume that, but it's only because I'm determined to be outgoing. On the inside I'm over analyzing everything and trying not to be humiliated by everything that comes out of my mouth. Haha.
You should message me if
You are into adventures with weirdos. If dancing like a fool is something you're into.
The two of us