42South Hadley, United States
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My self-summary
I'm a genuine and respectful guy. I have a good head on my shoulders and make a sincere effort to be open and honest. I like to think about life and people. I want to understand and experience as much as I can while I'm alive.
What I’m doing with my life
Contra dancing. Learning ukulele. Planting peppers and tomatoes. Going to Burning Man. And I guess going to work now and then. :)
I’m really good at
Contra dancing. Software development. Being a genuine, honest, and relaxed person. Listening, thinking, connecting and understanding. Being goofy, creative, smart and funny. Knowing way too much about Star Trek. Memorizing ridiculous Monty Python skits. Getting better at the ukulele every day!
The first things people usually notice about me
My voice is high pitched. I've had people insist it was fake. I dunno why it is the way it is, but there isn't much I can do about it. One summer, I tried to force my voice to be lower. But I stopped when I realized I no longer felt like "me".
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books. I don't read a lot. But of the books I've read lately, I was a big fan of "The New Earth". Yes, it's a new agey "Oprah club" book. And yes, some of it is overly hokey. But it's a great look at the ego and it's effect on the human psyche. I also really liked Ringworld, The Hitchhiker's Guide, Contact, and 2001. (Yes, the books.)

Movies. I like all kinds of movies. Barbarella, 2001, Baraka and The Matrix come to mind as some favorites. Also Starship Troopers and Fight Club. Stranger than Fiction, Totoro, Scott Pilgrim. Art films like My Dinner With Andre. I also like silly films like The Waterboy and Zoolander. Probably many more.

Music. Let's see: Cocteau Twins, REM, Dead Can Dance, Ulrich Schnauss, gel sol, Harold Budd. Anyone on here ever heard of Dif Juz or Swallow? I generally like ambient and/or meditative music. I also made a little music of my own "back in the day".

Food. Good god, just about everything. Chocolate, mushrooms, cilantro. My love of food is the reason I'm not a vegetarian. I tried once. I am incapable of doing it, but it gave me the greatest respect for anyone who can pull it off.
Six things I could never do without
Contra dancing
My home
My Macbook & iPhone
Bare feet in the grass
I spend a lot of time thinking about
People, time, space, energy, existence, life, fractals, physics, psychology, sociology, finances, politics, food, sex, relationships, dancing, my house.
On a typical Friday night I am
Sometimes contra dancing. Sometimes napping. Sometimes browsing the internets. Sometimes watching a movie. Sometimes hanging out with friends.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
Nothing. Nothing at all. You'll just have to TALK to me. :)
You should message me if
You wanna go dancing. :)
The two of us