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My self-summary
A lady seeks a gentleman. Much is meant by the use of those words, and if you understand my meaning read on. Otherwise, please seek your paramour elsewhere.

Woman: multifaceted & civilized . An INFP. Sapiosexual.
My actual status is : AVAILABLE- Ask me.

Quite seriously interested in persons who are cultured, civilized and compassionate, as friends, male or female. Ideally, they would be well educated, not necessarily formally, as curious about the world as I am, able to enjoy the simplest of pleasures. I have met some very wonderful people here, and there is nothing that says we have to develop only romantic interests. But if I met a great love...... Let us say, I would not cast him aside ! :)))

"You have to keep breaking your heart until it opens."
Mevlana Cellaledin-i Rumi
What I’m doing with my life
Thriving, creating, exploring, savoring its intensity, breaking my heart....

Thinking about how :
"You don’t love someone for their looks, or their clothes or their cars..... but because they sing a song only you can hear"
Oscar Wilde
I’m really good at
Being myself
Respecting others
Questioning the how, the why
Honoring the sanctity of every soul
The first things people usually notice about me
An authentic sincere presence. That I am attentive and in the moment, from what I have been told, by those who have become my friends.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Mostly non-fiction on all subjects
Dramatic, historical, complex, independent films
All types of good music, instrumental preferably
Organic, high cuisine and native peasant foods

Some music I love; to give you an idea about me.
Six things I could never do without
Passion & Love
Art supplies
Intelligent conversation
Occasional silliness too :
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I spend a lot of time thinking about
Why we are as superficial as we are, despite our best intentions ?
Why wisdom is given to us at a such a late stage in life ?
What our lives would be if we chose alternate paths ?
If partners in crime or soul mates really exist ?
Does it even matter if they do or not ?
Being & nothingness
On a typical Friday night I am
I am nesting. Happy to be home, reading, listening to music, engaged in something creative, relishing a cozy evening.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I extremely romantic, sensitive and passionate.

I am liberal in spirit, in thought and action.

“I don’t really want to become normal, average, standard. I want merely to gain in strength, in the courage to live out my life more fully, enjoy more, experience more. I want to develop even more original and more unconventional traits.”
— Anaïs Nin
You should message me if
You do not have an aversion to friendships with full figured women who possess a fair degree of class and elegance despite their extra weight.

You understand that, friendships can sometimes grow, deepen and turn into relationships. But not necessarily. That it all begins with a mental connection, common interests and values. The mind is our most intense erogenous zone. Capture my mind, the rest will follow.

You are a sentient thinker, enjoy and have a passion for life, derive joy from making others happy, can see hidden beauty, appreciate the exquisite complexities of the mind and soul.

You are an intellectual, in the true sense of the word.

If you know what you want, along with what you are
willing to do to achieve it.

You are a strong independent individual
or just simply a solid human being.

You are maybe,just maybe, over 6 feet or close to it,and not
too terribly skinny, or a gym addict. Yes, we all have our
body types. Chubby ladies are not your type; I fully understand
and appreciate that. And no this is not flakey, just human nature.

Or you've gotten tired of waiting for the miracle to come..
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The two of us