mr_tobes
42 Seattle, United States
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My self-summary
Sometimes shy guy looking for... well, not sure just yet. Maybe just someone to snuggle up and watch a movie with.

I'm open to suggestions.
What I’m doing with my life
I've been transitioning into singlehood after the end of a 7 year relationship for the last year and a half, which means that I'm a little out of sorts.

Otherwise, I'm librarianing and hanging out with my friends.

I enjoy cooking, and while many of my meals don't quite turn out or are strangely idiosyncratic, I can turn out a bolognese that's delicious! I enjoy trying new recipes.
I’m really good at
- occasionally contributing a good one-liner.
- cuddling.
- roller skating.
- slicing onions.
The first things people usually notice about me
- My crooked, near perma-smile
- My awkward way of laughing when I'm nervous
- my blue eyes
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books
Get to know me on goodreads to find out... I'm a librarian, and it's just not fair to ask me what my favorite book is.

Movies
I've watched a lot of movies and like many of them.

Music

American Analog Set | Arcade Fire | Beach House | Best Coast | Bonnie Prince Billy | Camera Obscura | Cut Copy | Das Racist | Del | Destroyer | Ghostland Observatory | Hidden Cameras | Kiki & Herb | Magnetic Fields | The National | New Pornographers | Nina Simone | Okkervil River | Passion Pit | Ratatat | The Smiths | Tegan and Sara | Unbunny |

Food
I like cooking and if you're lucky I'll make you bolognese sauce (which takes about 5 hours!). Sometimes I cook amazing things, and other times I just cobble together whatever's available pretending that I'm on chopped and have to use a weird combo of mystery basket items. I like eating out and trying new places. I love a good sandwich.
The six things I could never do without
Friends
Cuddling
Books
Music
Water
one other thing

... just to name a few in no particular order.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Traveling, but spend less of my time actually doing it.
On a typical Friday night I am
Either out with friends, or hanging at home wishing I had someone to cuddle with, because I sometimes work on Saturdays.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
Is that I'm private.
You should message me if
you want. I'm not making any promises, but I am a nice guy at least.
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