I am intelligent, geeky, and perverse
Update for 2013:
Existing in what I consider to be a sexless marriage.
As a 'reach for the stars' wish, I love the idea of becoming FWBs with a couple that have similar fetish interests.
I do attend local munches in the San Gabriel valley, too :)
(Basically I am good with my hands.)
Sci-Fi: William Gibson, Neal Stephenson,Harry Harrison, Steve Perry, Heinlein, Asimov, Herbert. ...Too many authors to list them all!
Since I hit my 40s in age, selections from 'the top 100 classic books', so have read 'Moby Dick', 'Angle of Repose', 'Death With Interruptions', '100 years of solitude', and plan to keep reading more of them.
Almost anything serious with Angelina Jolie -- Playing by Heart, Original Sin.
Movies that let me know others out there in the world "get it" for alternative sexuality: "The Secretary".
Geek flick funny favorite: "Hackers."
Geek flick serious drama favorite: "Gattaca."
http://youtube.com Armin Van Buuren's A State of Trance, Above and Beyond's Group Therapy and such (vocal trance). Orbital. Old faves include 80's music. Rush. Mannheim Steamroller. Jazz. Classical.
I like it spicy! Thai, Indian, Sushi, Italian, and the occasional burger too... did I mention... pizza!
The internet (for work, for porn... did I mention porn yet?).
How to have adventures erotic experiences without falling into the trap of being a sexaholic -- could be too late for that one. Hmm....