46Santa Clara, United States
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My self-summary
Just your average red-headed nutball. Physically I am short (but hey that doesn't stop me), have long red hair and green eyes. I enjoy good food, wine, coffee and of course chocolate usually with good friends, sharing is much more fun. I try to get along with everyone. I believe in being honest, caring for my fellow man (when they deserve it) and using my brain. I like to think I can hold my end of a conversation (well no one has told that I couldn't) and listening when needed to. I practice polyamory and believe in full disclosure to your partners. What is polyamory? Here is a good definition: polyamory is the belief in and/or practice of multiple loving relationships, with the full knowledge and consent of those involved. I also practice Wicca and other forms of spirituality.

I am here to find a secondary long term romantic relationship. I love my husband with all my heart but there is still room for another special someone. I am NOT looking for casual hook ups, "friends with benefits" or to be a "dirty little secret".

I am intelligent, sensual, and caring
What I’m doing with my life
Currently I am a professional dog wrestler and cat herder aka veterinary technician or doggie nurse. I enjoy being a veterinary nurse, animals have much to teach us humans. I am married to my wonderful partner unseelie23. When I'm not at work I enjoy exploring my creative side. I enjoy sewing and making costumes and jewelery. I also belly dance when I get the opportunity and I am part of a troupe.
I’m really good at
being a girl and woman depending on what the situation calls for.
The first things people usually notice about me
both sets of eyes.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books- Terry Pratchett's Discworld series, Jacqueline Carey's Kushiel series, Elfquest, Sylvia Browne, Philip Pullman

Movies- "The Red Violin", "What Dreams May Come", Francis Ford Coppola "Dracula", "Nightmare Before Christmas", "Chocolat"

Music- my interests vary widely from 80's pop and metal to Celtic to classical to world to blues. The only genres I am not into is hip hop and country. My guilty pleasures are disco and The Time.

Food- I love anything spicy especially Mexican and Indian. I also enjoy Italian, Chinese, Japanese, Thai and good ol' American food.

TV- Doctor Who, Mythbusters, House MD, Battlestar Galactica, CSI
Six things I could never do without
touch- I enjoy giving and receiving it.

music- I enjoy it too much

chocolate- enough said

bubble baths- we all need to unwind, this my way

my cats- they are my good friends and companions

my iPhone- that is a useful piece of technology
I spend a lot of time thinking about
I would like to do something more creative with my life. I enjoy jewelry making and plan to start my own business in the near future doing that. Taking small steps and not quitting my day job until I have the proper foundation to take that leap.
On a typical Friday night I am
relaxing and unwinding from the week.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I have a tattoo and will be getting a second one soon.
You should message me if
You are honest, intelligent and comfortable with yourself. I am a strong woman (see the red head part) and you should be able to handle yourself and me with respect. Age, size and color do not matter to me. I encourage geeks to apply.
Also if you have questions about polyamory.
The two of us