Ive just gone thru several major changes in my life; Death of a parent, divorce, sold a house and relocated to another city.
Sooooo, if you read this you will know why I may not be returning messages.
If you don't read this. .well you're pretty hopeless at this online stuff eh?
Looking for fun people for conversation, friendship, and perhaps fun.
What I'm not interested in is finding my one and only , " true love" to settle down with in mognomous bliss.
I march to the beat of a different flogger...
I am Pansexual, interested in people without too much worry over what the "wrapping" over their personality is.
What have you always wanted to do/try but have been too worried about what other people would think of you?
I am open-minded, adventurous, and kinky
Otherwise i enjoy talking, possibly meeting,thers who share interest in various Lifestyles. I am fairly active in the local kink community.
Keeping that in mind, if the ONLY reason you're writing to me is because you're into kink, might I suggest you look into setting up an account on Fetlife? It's also free and you'll find all kind of local events and people ONLY looking for kinky friends ( you'll also find lots that want more, just like I do. Such is the nature of sites like these)
Not so good at dancing but that don't mean I won't do it. Fire dancing with a drum circle out at camp is a great way to get moving.
Talking to people....most any one about most anything. People are just interesting, sometimes funny and often enlightening without really trying.
Thou you should be warned I have an unfortunate fondness for word play...sort of a one track mind...and ADHD can sometimes make it worse.
You have been warned...
Grey streaked ( sometimes purple, often blue) hair and big grin
4-11-16 hair is now teal blue (always wanted to be Smurfette )
12-28-16 AAAAAAND its back to grey.😂
Philip K. Dick...always good...books that make you go "huh"...
Chelsea Quinn Yarbo...her Count Saint-Germain, the original.
gentleman vampire series.
Harlin Ellison and Asimov...the classics.
P.N.Elrod is also good for a twist on the vampire series (yes, I enjoyed vampire stories for quite some time before the current craze)
Anything Sherlock Holmes...the cannon, and the new interpations
Oh, something else I don't do too well...SPELL.* Damn ADHD* and my spell check has gone missing on this computer.....
If this is a bother to you....b ye-bye.
Books! Most any type from cookbooks to mystery. Acient history to current magazines.
Honesty...mine, yours, and most of all honesty to myself...even when I would prefer otherwise.
Family....both the blood ones and those by choice.
One more eh?......gonna have to get back to you on that....
Religion...you better conform.
Pagan, you better conform. Even a religion of non comformity has it fundimentialists..
Bisexual...well you just cannot make up your mind.
Kinky...well even there it's a crap shoot who will be pissed off at you within the kink/swinger community~ Swingers don't understand those that enjoy more than a little slap n tickle. The hard core BDSM don't approve of incorporating sex into a scene....
it just goes on and on....
AND I CANNOT BE ARSED TO TRY TO FIT INTO THESE LITTLE PIGON HOLES!
So be ready to take me as I am and I will do my best to accept you as you really are.
This was very enlightening as it finally gave me a reason for many traits that didn't fit into the ADHD patterns, and let me know I wasn't crazy for my sensitivities to sound, taste, textures that have been with me my entire life.
Update 8-3-15: one thing I AM interested to find is very special(lized); I Am interested in a submissive man ( male bodied) for an ongoing BDSM relationship. A STRONG, INTELLIGENT, SUBMISSIVE man that honestly enjoys being submissive to the right woman. Sissys and cross dressers, sorry it's not my kink, please look elsewhere for a better match. If AFTER READING MY PROFILE, you think we could be in the same page, contact me to open a dialogue and let's see if I agree.
You are curious..and polite.....and can form complete sentences...without using "text' speak.
Sorry not interested in learning a new language...I have enough to do using the current one properly.
Open minded, and curious, or experienced....but respectful.
Oh! I seem to have neglected to put this in....so here it is...NO FRICKIN CHEATERS!! If you cannot respect your partner enough to be honest and upfront about your needs...and handle the possible fallout like an adult...and you sure don't have enought respect for yourself to not sneak...THEN TRY TO HAVE SOME RESPECT FOR ME AND KEEP ME OUT OF IT!