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My self-summary
First up: I'm on a wheelchair due to a chronic illness so if you're not willing to look past that, please move on to other matches. I don't need hate messages, thank you very much! :)

Now that we have gotten that out of the way... please be assured that whilst the illness is a part of me, it doesn't necessarily defines me entirely. I'm both a design and law grad. Horror movie connoisseur. I write and perform poetry, screenplays, dabble in photography and paint sporadically. Bisexual, if that bothers you, you may move on to other matches right now. Goth music reigns supreme for me.

An introvert by nature, big crowds aren't exactly my cup of tea. Yes, I'm that socially awkward penguin. I love having my quiet, quality time with my mind wandering into dimensions I never thought existed. Or with my family and friends, if that sounds more 'normal' to you. Cinema, cafés, art galleries and craft stores are some places I'd feel very much at home.

I'm a little shy around unfamiliar faces and in unfamiliar environment. But I'd like to think that I have a big heart and would invest so much of myself to the ones I love and matter.

In case you're curious, according to MBTI, I'm an INFJ and I dare say their profiling is pretty spot on.

Oh and by the way, I have Borderline Personality Disorder. Yes, my mood swings every few minutes, even I can't catch up with it. I do take medication for this. If this turns you off, move along now.
What I’m doing with my life
I work in hospitality and study Hindi language on a part-time basis. From time to time, I perform spoken word poetry.
I’m really good at
Being everyone's counsellor. Not that it's a bad thing as I do like to help, as much as I possibly can. Maybe it's an INFJ thing.
The first things people usually notice about me
I don't care about this. Usually, first impressions are shallow. The best way to know a person is by talking to them than making assumptions.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books: I love works of Agatha Christie, Stieg Larsson, Jo Nesbø, Anne Rice, Edgar Allan Poe, Jelaluddin Rumi, H.P. Lovecraft, Sylvia Plath, John Donne, W.B. Yeats, John Keats, Forugh Farrokhzad, Jean-Paul Sartre, Simone de Beauvoir, Friedrich Nietzsche, Søren Kierkegaard, Carl Jung... and a bunch of books about Sufism. I love poetry a whole lot and I own a number of poetry books. I read a lot of books about law, politics, social justice, the arts, feminism.

Movies: I'm a massive movie buff! Horror, action, comedy, I'd watch them all. I've seen and enjoyed movies from the 1920's, all the way to present day in any language and genre. Some my favourite directors include John Carpenter, Lars Von Trier, Darren Aronofsky, Stanley Kubrick, Tim Burton, Ingmar Bergman, Guillermo del Toro, Anton Corbijn, Martin Scorsese, Alfred Hitchcock, Carl Theodore Dreyer, Guy Ritchie, Quentin Tarantino. Oh, and I love Bollywood.

Shows: Criminal Minds, How To Get Away With Murder, Scorpion, Law & Order: Special Victims Unit, Guys With Kids, How I Met Your Mother, MasterChef Australia and since I'm a Liverpool fan (since 1998!), I try to watch their live matches when I can. YNWA!

Music: Music that falls under the umbrella of goth (80's goth rock, post-punk, industrial, darkwave) such as the likes of Bauhaus, The Sisters of Mercy, Siouxsie and the Banshees, Joy Division, The Cure, Killing Joke, Christian Death, Specimen, The Wake, Rosetta Stone, Clan of Xymox, Fields of the Nephillim, Xmal Deutschland, The Crüxshadows, The Mission, Inkubus Sukkubus, Nachtmahr, Combichrist, Marilyn Manson, Blutengel, Santa Hates You, In Strict Confidence, Genitorturers, Depeche Mode, New Order, Gary Numan, Japan. I do listen to black metal, folk and doom metal, ska and rocksteady. Other kinds of music like Amy Winehouse, Paloma Faith, Tove Lo, Sia, Christina Aguilera (seriously, who doesn't love her?!) And occasionally, Hindi music, Sufi music, Qawwali music. I love music a lot if you can't tell already! :)

Food: Life is too short to be a cow and eat grass all the time. I'm a girl who loves her meat, thank you.
Six things I could never do without
On a typical Friday night I am
out having a nice dinner or drink with a good company.
You should message me if
You appreciate my honesty.

Always up for insightful conversations over coffee or cocktails. That is, if you don't mind meeting up with someone on a wheelchair (sob stories not included). I'd like to meet someone who's willing to be with me in good and bad times, and not give up the moment life hits its bumps. I have been told I'm a challenging person to be with but honestly, I just don't like to be lied to, led on and treated like shit. Rude messages WILL be ignored. Manners are free, why not use it?

Please DON'T message me to tell me how sorry you feel about my condition and/or that you'll pray I'll get well/recover. You probably have good intentions but please, just don't. I'm not here for sympathy and have never lived from getting sympathy votes from others. And not all conditions are curable. My condition will stay with me until the day I die so if you can't live with that, well, I can't live with you either then. Sometimes, life isn't about chasing a perfect health or perfect whatever. Sometimes, you just have to make do with what you have, regardless of what you lack. Any pity popping messages, WILL be ignored.

Not interested in engaging with a married person/one night stands/hookups/casual dates that lead to nowhere. If you live blahblahblah miles away and not relocating closer, let's not waste each other's time, shall we?

And if your profile says, "I'm only looking for friends, nothing serious hahaha", please don't waste my time.
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