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My self-summary
I am a study in contradictions. I am soft, hard, scattered, incredibly focused, seriously playful, moral and also amoral, I confuse myself often. I am an artist, a scientist, a mother, a lover, a friend, a child, too stuck in my head. I love life even when I hate it. Beauty beckons like a siren in all its guises and yet I am repelled by the social ramifications it brings. I love unconditionally but without too much emotional attachment. I enjoy paradox and absurdity and yet am compelled to logically sort through it. I am endlessly fascinated with the mind, happiness, good living, satisfaction and how we all make our own paths to get there.

I am brilliant, inspired, and Humble
What I’m doing with my life
Coaching people to find their maximum possible happiness while working on starting a startup that I believe could fix a big part of what's not working in mental health care.
I’m really good at
Unconditional positive regard, laughing, thinking, being a mom, not delaying gratification, loving beauty, creating beauty, decorating, solving problems, creating, inspiring, enjoying... tasting life.
The first things people usually notice about me
my eyes and maybe my intensity.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
A) In Cold Blood, The Picture of Dorian Gray, The Handmaid's Tale, The doctor and The Soul, Anatomy of an Epidemic, sometimes chic lit.
B) Hero, princess bride, the cell, cruel intentions, Kinsey, Clueless, The Breakfast Club, Johnny Dangerously, The Life of Brian, The Godfather I & II, Lady and the Tramp.
C) Gypsy jazz, trip hop, classical, jazz, blues, funk, techno, acoustic rock, alternative
d) Indian, Mexican, Chinese, Italian, French, Thai.
Bonus categories:
Artists) Klimt, Dali, de Lampeka, Amy Sol
Art Genres) Lowbrow, pinup, classical, conceptual, mixed
Six things I could never do without
mind, challenge, my child, passion, inspiration, hope
I spend a lot of time thinking about
how to muster the courage to give up what I should do in favor of what I must. How to balance vulnerability and caution in relationships. How to read between the lines. How to get out of my thoughts and into a shared reality. What do I actually want to do/be/learn/live/believe....
On a typical Friday night I am
Researching, playing with my daughter, or exploring the world.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
Freud and Jung both experienced a "creative sickness" for about 10 years during which they discovered their answers to the things they spent a lot of time thinking about.

I wonder if I have that same bug and how to shorten the time of gestation :-)
You should message me if
you are easily amused, inspired, or intrigued.

You are emotionally available, flexible, and not too grown up (or don't mind that I'm quite convinced I never might become a "real" grown-up), but are generally able to make good on your word and be counted on.

You don't mind that I am not very good at keeping up with mail so it might take me a very long time to respond.. and in the interest of not being rude, I can pretty much assure you I won't write back if you have an empty profile or have sent me one of a million shotgun-blast notes. I'm trying to get better at responding atm
The two of us