For the philosophical types: I'm more of a relativist than an absolutist, though I think a good metric for ethical behavior is the presence or absence of harm to another. On my good days, I tend to be utilitarian in my outlook. I am constantly filled with a healthy amount of Cartesian doubt.
My sporty gay boys: I don't follow sports (though I've become an accidental Packers fan), but I'll outrun, out-bike, or out-wrestle you any day. I will play you at shooty hoops, and I will lose. I will still play you. Throw me a pig skin, however, and I'll put it in the oven and make chicharrón.
For my political gays: I campaigned and voted for Obama twice. I phone banked for gay marriage. I'm not afraid to discuss Israel and Palestine. I believe we live in a fundamentally racist, homophobic, economically unjust patriarchy. These attitudes are ingrained in our institutions and it is our job to dismantle them in a never-ending effort to uphold human dignity. While both Obama and gay marriage are more conservative than I like, I believe in a gradual approach to the aforementioned dismantling and see both as huge steps on a longer journey.
For my masc4masc guys: über-masc does not equal übermensch. I'm looking for well rounded types who aren't afraid of women or being seen as feminine. If you consider yourself masculine, I hope you have a diverse opinion of what that means. Embrace the rainbow, gurls.
For my adventurous boys: I have a sleeping bag, a tent, and a hammock. Let's roll.
For my BDSM/RACK/Whips and Chains types: I'm down.
For my vanilla types: I'm down.
For my early-adopting OKCupid boys who remember where this comes from: I am romantic, sexual, and tempestuous
Movies/Television: BSG (What Would Laura Roslin Do?), STNG, STDS9, South Park, Requiem for a Dream, Pan's Labyrinth, Labyrinth, Amélie, Love Actually, The Princess Bride, The Dark Crystal.
Music: 80s power ballads, 90s grunge/alternative, classical music, Carmen, most operas by Puccini, Verdi and occasionally Wagner (I know), most Russian composers, musical theatre in the Sondheim/Jason Robert Brown vein, Rent (the original Broadway, not the movie).
Food: love me some dirty dirty Chinese food, but I'm open to almost anything. I've recently started roasting whole chickens and discovered I make 'em quite tasty.
-the written word
-physical affection, including sex
-even though you love the song "Mexican Wrestler," you kinda wish Jill Sobule had sung "sometimes I wish that I were a wrestler," not "I was a wrestler"
-you don't believe the Kobayashi Maru is unwinnable
-you are a solid, stable person with an adventurous streak, committed to doing good in the world, and you get along well with aggressively passionate people
-you can challenge me and want to be challenged in return
-you wish OkCupid recognized simple html for unordered lists
-you'll climb trees with me