nah-mean
32 Victoria, Canada
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My self-summary
Human male. Semi-professional writer. Publicist/Media relations for a music festival here in Victoria. Amateur dancing enthusiast. Sarcastic. Noise-addict. Science lover. Podcast listener. Haver of long, aimless walks.

I try my damnedest to be a nice, decent, thoughtful person and value those things in the people around me.

I don't want to mean everything to someone, it's too much pressure. I want to find connections to augment my already rad life and I want to add some spice to someone who's content with hers as well. Well beyond casual but not some fairy-tale BS.

I spend the summers going to music festivals, dancing my face off and writing about it.
What I’m doing with my life
Drifting on the way to an unknown destination and having as much fun as I can while I do.
I’m really good at
People tell me I write well. I'm a good cook but a terrible baker. I'm good at assessing and processing my thoughts and feelings.
The first things people usually notice about me
I say "motherfucker" alot. Actually, I just generally say the word "fuck" a lot. I have a beard. I will always have a beard.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
- Music is the only thing in my life that has always made sense. It's always on. I write about it. I interview people who make it. Music is all-important. Please like music, or at least be opening to liking the right music for you. I will talk about it forever if you let me. Huge bonus points for those into hip-hop, funk, soul, reggae...Black music.

- The movie "Teen Wolf" is racist allegory for White peoples' deep-seeded fear of powerful Black men.

- I love books, but don't get going on them enough. Please, give me a recommendation...a good biography, societal non-fiction or a good sci-fi would be lovely.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
-Humanism, feminism, pan-Africanism. EQUALITY.
-Common use of language and how it relates to oppression, discrimination, misogyny, etc. Being a hip-hop fan, this is constantly on my mind in regards to music I like to listen to. Also, how is it possible that there is a piece of clothing people named after domestic violence? It's a tank top or an undershirt. There are always better words.
-The intersection of sex, emotions, power and the trading of, therein.
-Problems with our systems of food productions and distribution.
-How amazing it is that we're lucky enough to not only be alive on this Earth, but to be alive in places that have so many privileges.
-We are on a rock hurtling millions of miles per hour through fucking OUTER SPACE.
-Consciousness, God and the nature of reality.
-How FUCKING SILLY all of this is.
On a typical Friday night I am
Out at a concert, or at home (Or a friend's home) engaging in general merriment.

Solo dance parties in the basement are always an option too.
You should message me if
-You are a nice person.
-You don't believe in modern love.
-You aren't looking for someone to "complete you" or some such nonsense.
-You want to go out dancing!
-You can help me learn to hula-hoop.
-You want smoke joints and listen to hip-hop, breaks, soul, house or anything groovy. Especially hip-hop. (Joints not the least bit essential.)
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