38 Poulsbo, United States
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My self-summary
I loathe summarizing myself, but I suppose if I'm to do this, I may as well do it right.
Let's see, I work too much for too little. I'm painfully shy around new people but once I get to know someone I kind of do a complete 180 and have almost no personal boundaries at all.
I can get a little jealous and clingy as well as a bit over-protective. At my age, I suspect it's part of my personality that isn't going to ever change.
I live my life to the soundtrack in my head. There is always music. (I have a tendency to hum/sing out loud despite a complete inability to actually carry a tune....)
I try to see the silver lining to any situation - or barring that, the humor.
I'm often the subject of good-natured teasing (at least, I assume it's good-natured) because I have a laundry list of quirks that are ripe for it.
I enjoy traveling, though I can't do as much of it as I'd like.
What I’m doing with my life
Right now I'm just getting through it a day at a time. I work and I sleep and I don't do much else.
I just got back into school. Eventually I'd like to work as a translator.
I’m really good at
...laughing at myself. If you can't humor yourself, who can you humor?

I consider myself a good writer, but I suppose that's subjective. I am a good cook, though. I'd have to be since that's kind of my job. I like to think I'm a good listener.
The first things people usually notice about me
Not a question I usually ask people, but I suppose... my fondness for the color orange?
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books - I love to read and have rather eclectic tastes. I love authors from David Weber to Shakespeare and just about everything in between.

Movies - Star Trek. Anything Marvel. Anything with Karl Urban in it. I'm not a fan of 'stupid' humor in my movies.

TV - Criminal Minds, Star Trek, StarGate, NCIS, Eureka, Torchwood, Dr. Who

Music - My musical tastes can be somewhat random. I love Garth Brooks and Linkin Park, Loreena McKennit and Justin Timberlake. My favorite music, tends to be foreign. Korean and Latino, Japanese and Russian, a little German tossed in for good measure. I also enjoy musicals.

Food - I'll try any food once as long as it doesn't have fish in it (allergy).
The six things I could never do without
Family. Friends. Music. Things to read. my phone. shoes?
I spend a lot of time thinking about
life, the universe, and everything.
On a typical Friday night I am
at work. My job requires me to work on Friday nights. My days off tend to be more towards the middle of the week.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I have problems with people significantly bigger than I am. Someone 6'5 and built like a brick house would probably make me flinch every time you walked up to me until I got used to you. My friends joke that my own shadow makes me jump, though, so... don't take it personally? I'm not a big scaredy-cat, nor is there any violence in my history that I'm aware of.

It's just a visceral reaction. I really can't help it.
You should message me if have an open mind and are willing to let a person be themselves. can be serious, but are willing to have fun and be silly - or at least let me be silly enough for both of us.'re interested!

Deal Breakers (i.e. types of people who shouldn't bother with me) -
1. Homophobes. Your life, your opinions, but we wouldn't get along.
2. People who dislike children. I have two and while they don't live with me, they're very important to me.
3. Tea Party Supporters. Your life, your opinions, but batshit insane is batshit insane.