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My self-summary
so who am I

I am a human being...

A lesser or greater spirit! born into this world and gifted a body to play in and play I will..............originally from lincolnshire and like the famous imp mischievous and fun although the mischievousness tends to have dark dominant characteristics.

A good boy who knows how to be bad. Straight male, tattooed and pierced (but then as a tattoo artist and body piercer what do you expect lol), wicked sense of humour, kinda kinky - dominant with a good imagination

I care passionately about the planet and green issues

I enjoy photography especially 3D

I enjoy working with my hands - leatherwork, woodwork, metalwork, art, whipmaking

To attach a label would put me as a leather loving vegan cos whilst my fridge resembles a garden rather than a mortuary - I will recycle and utilise their skin

I have a quest for knowledge especially about health and natural healing

I love to dance... partner dancing that is; Lindy Hop, Modern Jive - wanting to become more proficient at these as well as Balboa and Collegiate Shag

As a person I believe I am kind, caring and considerate - everyones friend

I am open about everything in life - that way you cannot say you did not know and there is nothing that can be used to blackmail.

I have been to, still go to and enjoy fetish parties. These I have attended both as a single person and as a couple in previous relationships. Hoping the new lady in my life would like to attend too

I want to experience all that I can in life,, with no regrets,, if I dont like something I wont do it again,, but how amazing to say "I've done that"... To live and to potentially regret the things I've done,, rather than regret not doing them at all!

I have a wide variety of interests and want to see if my own psyche can be opened and broadened with the right person.

I am not in the business of one night stands or meeting instantly after one or 2 messages,,, I am a careful man and like to know any potential partner before meeting them

In a relationship I lean towards polyamorous, I believe you can love more than one person and am here looking to find someone who is open minded or similar, who hopefully can become along term partner and make lifes journey alongside me
Being poly does not mean I sleep with anyone and everyone. My health and partner(s) health are too precious for casual sex - it is a loving relationship with perhaps more than one committed partner and it applies both ways/ I do not do jealousy

All life on this planet exists because it has reproduced, without this capability we would be extinct and likewise Sex is very important to me, the kinkster within likes to spice it up as well.

I do not have any of societies/the churches or parental imposed hang ups, if I do something I am not necessarily going to hell or will become blind... no kitten has ever died - I have never been a monk and never will be (unless dressed up in the bedroom).So if I say I am a morning person, an evening person and be careful bending over tescos cold meat counter you should have a smile on your face

In case you have not already realised I have a wicked sense of humour.
What I’m doing with my life
I have lived a pretty alternate lifestyle, I still do
As a daytime job I tattoo and pierce, its a job I love and really enjoyable
I am trying to go off grid as far as utility companies go and would love to have my own orchard/garden to try and be self sufficient
I’m really good at
failed relationships - I do not wish to hurt any more monogamous people so here looking for those who have an understanding of poly or are poly
The first things people usually notice about me
He's wearing a kilt - they are so damn comfortable I do not understand why more people do not wear one
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
My favourite books are all self help, improvement and holistic medicine, authors too numerous to list but include; Charlotte Gerson, Max Gerson, Ann Wigmore, Dr Brian Clements, Dr Robert O Young

I love animated movies especially 3d with heroes and villains

My musical tastes vary, raised on Rock n Roll have a passion for the big band jazz sounds of the 30s and 40s of the swing dance era

My food is all natural from mother earth, cooked to perfection by the sun ;)
Six things I could never do without
my alternate lifestyle
sense of adventure
quest for knowledge
my toys
I spend a lot of time thinking about
How to survive the inhumanity, destruction and greed on this planet

dreaming about one day owning an orchard and fruit farming, permaculture and aquaponics

self sufficient off grid living - dropping out of this greedy society.

vegetarian, raw food vegan living

sex... kinky sex, mind blowing tantric sex, healthy loving and fun with committed partner(s)
On a typical Friday night I am
looking forward to a good nights sleep as I work saturdays - my weekends start Saturday night and go into Sunday/Monday
On occasions I will party but have to behave because of work
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
ask when you get to know me
You should message me if
curiousity gets the better of you
You want to know more
Would like to take a chance and date
Or are a pleasant individual who just wants to say hi
The two of us