MidlifeChrysalis
48 Los Angeles, United States
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My self-summary
This is the part where I woo you by telling you about my awesome Ed Hardy shirt collection, my sexy car and how great I am in bed, yes?

Me: Relationship minded, athletic, romantic, optomistic (usually), healthy, happy culinary hobbyist, in search of one great partner/food tester. And you should see my Ed Hardy shirts, they are so boss.

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Top Ten Reasons You'll Totally Dig Me:

1: I'm faithful, fun, loyal and cute. Like a puppy, except better, since I bathe myself and you don't need to buy me chew toys.

2: The attraction triangle theory suggests that out of three components (sane, good looking, smart), you can only have two. At least I'm smart and sane.

3: I don't kick kittens. While I understand that there are taller, better looking men than myself that you could date, they all kick kittens. Do you really want to spend your life with a kitten kicker? I thought not.

4: When I get cash out of the ATM, I don't count it, but I do make sure all the bills are facing the same direction.

5: I'm an awesome cook. Seriously. I can cook you a better meal than what you can get in a good many restaurants.

6: I've been called both romantic and sensual. Not bad for a guy from New Jersey.

7: After 20 years in Los Angeles, I am still an 'East Coast Boy,' and very proud of it.

8: I very firmly believe that the very best things in life aren't 'things' at all.

9: If you don't email me, the terrorists win.

10: Everything in my profile is true, which shows that I'm either pretty honest, or dumb enough not to lie about the bad stuff. Hopefully the former, but it might be a combination of both.
What I’m doing with my life
Doing high-end visual effects for films and commercials. Cooking up some crazy good food from scratch. Enjoying my friends and family. Staying fit. Reading great books. Exploring. Photographing. Continuing to play hockey, even though my body now often reminds me that I'm not 25 years old any more.
I’m really good at
Cooking (especially French, Italian and Southwestern. And healthy soups.) Road tripping out of LA for the weekend, playing with kids, hockey, screaming profanities after golf shots, photography.
The first things people usually notice about me
My stunning good looks,of course. What? What???
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I'm currently reading Richard Rhode's "The Making Of The Atomic Bomb." That's probably not sexy. Fascinating, though.

Art house movies over mainstream movies (even though I work mostly on nerdy VFX movies.) Documentaries, silly comedies. And Mystery Science Theater, just to show how sophisticated I am.

Almost any music as long as it's quality and the players are good. Can't wait for the Greek schedule to come out…..

I'll cook or eat almost anything, except perhaps some nasty organs which I don't believe we were ever really meant to eat except in emergency.
The six things I could never do without
Food and wine.
Cooking supplies.
Books.
Weekends out of LA.
Family.
Intimacy.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
How is it possible that I'm on an online dating site. Again.

Spirituality.

Human nature.

History and how we never seem to learn anything from it.
On a typical Friday night I am
If I had a great answer for this, I wouldn't be on OK Cupid.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I rocked a flip phone up until recently. Old school.
You should message me if
You're looking for a completely awesome guy and are at a place in life where you want to build something great.
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