39 Durham, United States
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My self-summary
I am a well-educated, active, fun person. I really love to laugh and I hope you don't get the impression that I'm no fun because of some of the "criteria" you might find as you read.

I'm very high energy, although I can be persuaded to relax if necessary.

I like just about anything 80s.

I've traveled quite a lot, including living for a short time in Europe and visiting Africa several times.

I believe that when you go out to dinner with friends, everyone should pay for what they ordered instead of splitting equally among those there. I also believe in Universal Health Care. Does this make me a hypocrite?

Please read the last section of my profile :)
I'm a pretty busy person and I do not have time for flakiness. I would love it if we click and you ask me out but I have so little free time that if you flake, no second chances. Sorry.
What I’m doing with my life
Learning to take good care of people - trying to do the same for myself.
I’m really good at
Making people laugh. Turning the most innocent of conversations into something "inappropriate."
The first things people usually notice about me
Either my eyes or my neck or my white coat
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Anything by Terry Pratchett. Started reading John Scalzi. Pride and Prejudice is my favorite book, but don't most women say that? Stephen King.
Love sushi and chocolate. Ice cream is a close 3rd.
I'll see most any movie. I'm a fan of cheesy buddy action comedies. If you've seen and like Better Off Dead, big bonus points for you. Stranger Than Fiction is one of my all time favorites.
The six things I could never do without
I'll think on the last two...
I spend a lot of time thinking about
I just realized my profile said "Africa" here because I let a friend have access to my profile. Word to the wise, make sure you are present when you let your friends put their hands on your profile.
On a typical Friday night I am
I'm either at home or I'm not at home.
You should message me if
I'm hoping to find someone who is interesting and well traveled. I would love to meet someone who has lived life a bit, has real opinions, thinks about the world around him and his impact on it. And of course can laugh about all those things!

And please DO NOT message me if:
-Your main photo is a selfie of you with no shirt
-You are going to be disrespectful or overly forward
-You don't have some form of advanced education (not to say if you did not go to college you aren't amazing, but it seems to be a shared cultural experience I appreciate)
-You don't spell out words completely (i.e. - you use cuz or luv and such)
-You are married or in some sort of open relationship - sorry, I don't share.