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Top 10 Reasons To Not Co-Sign On A Loan.

I get busy in life so please don't take it personal if I don't respond. I might be working, might be taking a break from meeting up or maybe just not into you. Billions of women exist on this planet so don't sweat the small stuff.

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Tom Leykis tenets:

Tom Leykis on dating. YouTube

Men, math and marriage. Youtube

Alimony. A woman's jackpot.

Leykis on dinner whores.

Child Support Horror Story.

Dating Tips for men! Choose lovers and friends wisely/Don't appear so needy/Look for red flags at the early stages/Never do long distance relationships, Never co-sign, Watch out for illegal immigrants that want to use you for a green card, Avoid women with kids at home, Stop bending over backward for women and do your own thing, Listen to Tom Leykis on dating (youtube).

-Never co-sign or mix any finances with a woman.
-Must see video on youtube. Check out don't get married stupid!
-Listen to Tom Leykis on youtube. (Read the comments under the videos)
-Avoid being catfished online by meeting only local women that are close by & meeting ASAP after a phone call. Stop talking on the phone forever & bring to real life ASAP.
-Avoid single women with a bunch of kids at home. Just know it's a package deal when dating women with kids. Do you like her kids? Do you get along with them? Will you have to pay for them?
-Don't become a walking wallet. Avoid date and run women by avoiding dinner & movies for first time meet up. Meet up at bookstores, parks during the day or a cafe. (No spending money until you know she is into you). No dinner whores!
-Avoid all long distance relationships like the plague. Go for the women that live in the same county. Less than 10 miles.
-The less attachment you have to women the less suffering you will have.
-Avoid dating or marrying any illegal immigrants. It's not worth the risk because most of them just want to use you for a green card. (Google Marriage Fraud)
-Watch how women treat animals, waiters, maids and exes. This is how she will treat you if you break up.
-Avoid women that have no time for you/no workaholics.
-Never let a woman borrow money or mix any finances. Have separate bank accounts/never co-sign!
-Check out Jesco White on marriage youtube (Funny)
-Get in touch with your inner asshole when it comes to women.
-Never trust a woman who won't perform oral sex on you.
-Stop bending over backwards for women and do your own thing. Most women are attracted to what they can't control.
-Watch out for women that use phrases in online profiles like "looking for a real man" or "gentleman". This simply means she wants you to pay for everything and take care of her. Watch for code words in profiles!
-Avoid love triangles by not getting involved with two people at the same time. Have time to heal between each relationship. You can have sex with two different people but no emotions/falling in love with two. (Very painful!)
-Google Dave Ramsey on co-signing and getting out of debt.
-Don't leave a lot of your possessions at their house. You never know when it will be over.
-Avoid letting women use up precious time texting & talking on the phone. Meet ASAP and have sex not phone friends!
-No marriage with women. Check out Tom Leykis on marriage on youtube.
-Never jump thru hoops for a woman. Be less interested to turn her on.
-Check out Tom Leykis on dating (youtube)
-Invest at least 10% of your income instead of spending it on a woman.
-Avoid traditional women that want to be showered with flowers, jewelry and other expensive gifts.
-You can't ever please a woman. The more you do for a woman the more she will expect of you.
-Falling in love is like getting in quicksand. It's easy to get in and hard to get out.
-Men aren't afraid of marriage. They are afraid of divorce and the consequences that come with divorce.
-Never assume your woman won't cheat, leave or take your money. All women can do this to a man. (Have no attachment)
-Never get involved with any woman if you aren't attracted to her. Never be embarrassed to be seen with her.
-Avoid manly women that act like men. You want a feminine woman that is kind & sweet. Avoid the mean, bratty, overly sarcastic women.
-Avoid anyone that is violent or overly jealous.
-Avoid restaurants & bars with your girlfriends girlfriends & family. Often you will have to pay for her cheap friends.
-Avoid druggies and drunks. Avoid bar whores!
-Before you get in any relationship makes sure you are thinking with your big head. Keep in mind your deal breakers and spot those red flags at the early stages before you get your heart attached.
-Avoid women that are into Nascar, stuffed animals, wrestling. You want classy not cheesy!
-It's easier to prevent getting in a relationship than getting out of one. Watch for red flags at the early stages!
-It's a package deal when dating single women with kids. Do the kids like you? Do you guys get along? Just be aware of it.
-Communication is key in any relationship. Can you talk to each other? Do you guys listen to each other?
-Do you like her parents? kids? friends? Yes it matters because it's a package deal.
-Men want new women like women want new shoes.
-Don't spend hours on the phone before meeting someone. Meet as soon as possible to avoid wasted time with someone you don't connect with in real life. Phone/online is not the same as real life!
-Tom Leykis - Why "being nice" to women doesn't work. (youtube)
-Either you are a payer or a player. You decide how women view you!
-Never give up friends, hobbies for women. Be independent and follow your own dreams.
-Avoid any women that never listens to you. If they are always blabbing and never come up from air then cut them out of your life.
-Check out Dan & Jennifer Online Dating - Can I Really Fall In Love Online? youtube
-Why is it all the women with fake hair, fake nails, and fake bodies expect to find a "real man"?
-Google What Happened to All the Nice Guys? on craiglist. Great little rant!
-You can lose lots of money chasing women, but you will never lose women chasing money.
-The harder you try for a woman the more she will walk all over you.
-Don't work so hard for her. Let her chase you.
-The person less interested in the relationship controls the relationship.
-Never throw out a womans # even if you get in a relationship. Always have a plan B!
-What starts out with laughter often ends in tears.
-Get involved with rich women & avoid women that are in debt, no job and poor.
-Run a background check on women & make sure she doesn't have a criminal record, warrants or any unpaid parking tickets.
-Never hold a woman's purse when out shopping.
-Before marriage and kids men have all the power.
-No women that won't drive or have a car.
-Avoid women with no job. You will become the sugardaddy.
-Make her pay for shit and do nice things for you. Stop doing everything for her.
-Always remain a mystery to women and let them know you have other options.
-Don't be a nice guy instead be interesting and unpredictable.
-Always have other women in the bullpen warming up. Don't put all your eggs in one basket/Never throw out a woman's phone #.
-Books to read: Don't sweat the small stuff, The mack within, The complete ***holes guide to handling chicks, They mystery method, The game, Secrets of the A game, The 48 laws of power, Nice guys don't get laid, No more mr. nice guy, Mode one, Everything out of her mouth is a test, The Predatory Female", A Field Guide to Dating and The Marriage-Divorce Industry, by Lawrence Shannon.

Youtube videos to check out online: Don't get married stupid!, Friends don't let friends get married, Marriage fraud, Tom Leykis on dating, Chris Rock on marriage, Bill Maher on marriage, Eddie Murphy on marriage, move your money, don't co-sign, men math and marriage, men's dating tips, dan & jennifer dating.

Google: Buster B don't get married, Don't get married Perkel.

Life lesson tips: Eat more veggies, never co-sign, listen more talk less, spend time in nature, use your local library, drink less colas & more water, brush & floss daily, invest at least 10% of your income, exercise, have a pet, choose your friends & lovers wisely, never marry or date an illegal immigrant(Google marriage fraud), visit new churches & religions, read more self-help books, watch more documentaries, be kind to everyone, learn to relax & don't sweat the small stuff, listen to positive books on cd's(free from library), never lose your sense of humor,be more open minded, be willing to learn, always wear a seat belt, think before you talk, hug more, when you love someone say it, don't make assumptions, count your blessings, commit yourself to quality, be alert for opportunities to show praise and appreciation, don't make the same mistake twice, give people the benefit of the doubt, don't insist on running someone else's life, don't interrupt, never assume a woman won't leave you/remember the only person who won't leave you is yourself.

First Meetup tips: When you meet someone online it's a meet up not a date.

Meet at a bookstore, park, mall, library, cafe, small towns, nature preserves. Any place we can both escape if we don't like each other. Meet up somewhere free or at least low cost. Women will either like you or they won't. Spending lots of cash won't change a woman's mind.

Use restaurant coupons for half off on meals. I love a sexy man that knows how to save money. (groupon, entertainment coupon book, half off, sweet jack, atlanta on the cheap)

Never spend money on the first meet. Hell you don't even know if she is into you. Save your cash and avoid dinners and movies. Go dutch, meet at parks, meet at bookstores, malls, libraries, cafe.

Best free date (Arrive early at coffee shop and buy your own drink before you meet her. You lose nothing but a little time if you don't match up.)

Check out Dan & Jennifer Online Dating - Can I Really Fall In Love Online? youtube Meet soon after talking on the phone!

Watch out for women that just want a green card! Tom Leykis- Men going foreign BEWARE!! (youtube)

Hobbies/Fun Things to do: posting pictures online, blogging, world cat library, eating out, traveling, fall season, corn maize, little 5 points halloween parade, factsheet 5, zines, photography, reading, concerts, fall festivals, answers, reddit, shopping, dancing, music, stickers, graffiti art, bansky, athens georgia, junkman daughter in little 5 points, political art, stencils, hiking, redbox, videodrome video store (ATL), investing, indie films, downtown roswell ga, candler park, uu church, vegetarian restaurants, documentaries, anti-marriage fraud activist, raw foods, green smoothies, kissing in the rain, foot massages, loving life, positive quotes, self-help audio cd's, state parks, having fun, doing new things, networking, going to new places, keeping positive attitude, being open minded, being kind, gene simmons, richard carlson, tom leykis, relationships between men & women, life lesson tips, film making, six flags, nature preserves, studying apologetics/atheism, wine, uu church, zig ziglar, les brown, state & local parks, political art, take more pictures, toe sucking, letter writing, recycling, road trips, roadside attractions, south of the border dillion sc, panama city, myrtle beach, exploring, men's rights.

Tom Leykis: The goal is to get the most tail for the less cash & drama!

A blind date online is a meet not a date. Meet only at low cost or free places: parks, bookstores, cafes, mall. No dinner or movies for first meet!


You can lose lots of money chasing women, but you will never lose women chasing money.

Women use sex to get love, men use love to get sex.

Women are like shadows: the more you chase them, the faster you run the faster they run away and you will never be able to catch them...but what happens the minute you turn your back on them and walk away?

Whenever you are too worried about someone else's approval, that person loses respect for you.

It is better to be disliked for being who you are than to be loved for who you are not.

The most attractive quality of all is dignity.

If it has tits or tires it's gonna cost you some money.

Don't trust a woman who won't perform oral sex on you.

Avoid single women with a bunch of kids at home!

The less attachment you have to women the less suffering you will have.

Always remain a mystery to women and let them know you have other options.

Before marriage & kids men have the power.

Falling in love is like getting in quicksand. It's easy to get in and hard to get out.

Love is blind but marriage is an eye-opener.

The person less interested in the relationship controls the relationship.

Why is it all the women with fake hair, fake nails, and fake bodies expect to find a "real man"?

Men want new pussy like women want new shoes.

It's easier to prevent getting in a relationship than getting out of one.

What starts out with laughter often ends in tears.

Love is the delusion that one woman differs from another.

A person who is nice to you but not nice to the waiter is not a nice person.

When a man brings his wife flowers for no reason - there's a reason.

Marriage is not a word. It is a sentence (a life sentence!!!)

Marriage is love. Love is blind. Therefore marriage is an institution for the blind.

A happy marriage is a matter of giving and taking; the husband gives and the wife takes.

When a man steals your wife, there is no better revenge than to let him keep her.

Any man who thinks marriage is a 50/50 proposition proves that: Either he knows nothing at all about percentages, (or) he's got an awful lot to learn about both women and marriage.

A man can be happy with any woman as long as he doesn't love her.

Before marriage, a man yearns for the woman he loves. After marriage, the 'Y' becomes silent.

Bigamy is having one wife too many. Monogamy is the same.

Ah, yes, divorce, from the Latin word meaning to rip out a man's genitals through his wallet.

Lust is easy. Love is hard. Like is most important.

Women are from mars and men have a penis.

Dumb men will always get married. So will smart women.

A man is called a "catch" because he's trying to run away.

Why divorces cost so much? Because they're worth it.

Why get married? Just find a woman you don't like and buy her a house!

50% of Americans (and 52% of Brits) end their first marriages with divorce, and nearly 70% of all second marriages end in divorce.

You never truly know a woman until you meet her in court.

The truth about men & women: Men want new pussy and women want money & security.

Some women are expert housekeepers. Every time they get divorced, they keep the house.

Being divorced is like being hit by a Mack truck. If you live through it, you start looking very carefully to the right and to the left.

Truly powerful people don't explain why they want respect. They simply don't engage someone who doesn't give it to them.

You jump through hoops any time you repeatedly make it very obvious you're giving your "all".

Before sex, a man isn't thinking clearly and a woman is thinking clearly. After sex, it reverses. The man is thinking clearly, and the woman isn't.

Anything a person chases in life runs away.

Act like a prize, and you'll turn her into a believer.

Be an independent thinker at all times, and ignore anyone who attempts to define you in a limiting way.

The more independent you are of her, the more interested she will be.

She simply won't respect a man who automatically goes into overdrive to please her. (Be a crazy bad boy)

You can get away with saying much more with humor than you can with a straight face.

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What I’m doing with my life
Reading cool books, listening to tom leykis on youtube, reddit, surfing the net, working out, hiking, drinking green smoothies, eating raw foods, yoga, friends, traveling, blogging, writing, good conversations/debates, visiting roadside attractions, exploring new churches/religions, visiting bookstores/libraries and reading, listening to non-fiction audio cd's, reading craiglist rants, watching jesco white on youtube, watching more documentaries, using my vitamix for green smoothies, eating more vegetarian foods, getting pedicures, volunteering, finding peace, burning man festival, reddit, netflix, men's rights, exploring local antique & thrift stores.

Barnes & Noble booksellers on Facebook.

Life's Little Instruction Book on YouTube.

Life lesson tips: Never lend money to women, avoid long distance relationships & go for the local women, read more books, pay off traffic tickets ASAP, invest more, take care of your teeth, exercise, know that when you date someone with kids it's a package deal, don't smoke, pay bills on time, make sure your car insurance is up to date & the insurance card is in the car, never drink & drive, use your local library, always wear a seatbelt, avoid people who break the law, listen to free audio cd's from the library, slow down when driving, think twice before marrying, learn from your mistakes, keep a journal, buy a IRA Roth every year, eat more fruits & veggies, max out 401 K at work if you have it, read positive quotes, kiss deeply, find a job you love, hug more, know when to be quiet & when to speak out.

Youtube videos for men. Must watch videos! (Please share online with other men)

-Men, math and marriage. (youtube)
-Tom Leykis - Reasons to Stay Unmarried (youtube)
-Why Marriage Is Bad For Men - The Marriage Dupe (youtube)
-Don't get married stupid!!! (youtube)
-Tom Leykis Why you should NOT get married! (youtube)
-Jerry Reed -- She Got The Goldmine (I Got The Shaft) (youtube)
-Tom Leykis Leykis 101--- A class that teaches men how to get laid with less money (youtube)
-Married Men and Single Men - The Difference (youtube)
-Tom Leykis - Favorite 101 Tenets (youtube)
-Pregnancy Traps and Manipulative Females (youtube)
-And women wonder why guys don't trust them (youtube)
-Friends Don't Let Friends Get Married (youtube)
-Tom Leykis --- Stop being a gentleman. Chivalry is old fashion and its for pussified men (youtube)
-Eddie Murphy - Guys Secrets (youtube)
-Dating Women Is Legal Prostitution (youtube)
-Mark Rudov - On Gold Diggers (youtube)
-Tom Leykis --- Women Want Vaginamony (youtube)
-Chris Rock-Never Scared-Married Life (youtube)
-Tom Leykis Stumps a Single Mother (youtube)
-Money Mistakes: Never Cosign a Loan
America's Money Class - Oprah Winfrey (youtube)
-Where did all the good men go? (youtube)
-Tom Leykis - Pre-nups and Green Cards (youtube)
-Marriage Fraud News Special (youtube)
-Will She Buy YOU Dinner? (youtube)
-A Message to Women (youtube)
-Leykis vs Gold-digger (youtube)
-Dave Chapelle - Men and Women Psychology - Very True (youtube)
-Marriage is a waste of male potential (youtube)
-Marc Rudov - How to handle women - Part 1 (youtube)
-Marc Rudov - How to handle women - Part 2 (youtube)
-DON'T GET MARRIED!!! (youtube)
-Patrice O'Neal - Do Not Get Married (youtube)
-Why Men Are Choosing Not To Get Married, Pt. 1 (youtube)
-Why Men Are Choosing Not To Get Married, Pt. 2 (youtube)

Child Support Horror Story.  
Man found out child is not his - Child Support Horror Story
I’m really good at
Juggling, giving good massages, photography, kissing, being open minded/listening, blogging, building websites, coming up with good ideas, playing guitar, writing.

More Dating Tips: Don't be pointdexter that pays for everything while she is out sleeping with other men, don't talk on the phone so much with her/do things with her not talk, be less interested, avoid women with lots of guy friends, have no attachment, never give up your guy friends and hobbies for a woman, have tons of women for backup, collect women # off free dating profiles, never get involved with high drama/druggies/violent women, learn to hit it and quit it, listen to tom leykis on youtube, be a little bit of a bad boy and crazy, get on several free dating sites (plenty of fish, ok cupid, date hookup), remain a mystery to women and let her know you have other options, use condoms to prevent kids/don't trust her about birth control, avoid women with kids at home/will you have to pay for them?, either you are a payer or player, avoid movies/restaurants for first time meet ups/meet at free or at least low cost places/bookstores/parks/cafes/shopping centers, the best way over a woman is to get under another woman, read the book the mack within, stop being a pussy and you will get more pussy, if she is alot of work to be with dump her and go for lower drama women, don't shave/keep a little gruff, do your own thing and don't focus all your attention on her, you don't own a woman you are only leasing her, google Chris Rock on marriage youtube, women come and go but you are stuck with you forever, focus on improving your own life instead of chasing women/then you will find women come to you, never think you can date a stripper, let her pay for shit, buy your own house and never let her move in/keep her off the lease, never buy a car with a woman, never assume a woman won't leave you/the only person who won't ever leave you is yourself, never chase women let them chase you, check out greensmoothiegirl808 at pof, don't mix anything legal or financial, avoid high drama women, educate other men about tom leykis, watch out for those quiet sweet women, never throw out a # and have tons of women warming up in the bullpen, stay focused on your own dreams and don't let her try to control you, buy your own house and never let a woman move in, don't let them take up your time with talking/be a doer, the best date is at her or your house/avoid restaurants/movie dinners/anywhere you will lose money, women have been with other men before and more than likely will be with men after you/no man owns a woman you are just passing thru, never show a woman you are jealous or ask if she is dating someone new, look into getting a vasectomy asap and never trust that she can't have kids, pull out even when using a condom, protect your sperm by flushing condom/never let her have access to the used condom, the only person who won't leave you is yourself/learn to love yourself, learn about wealth and hide your money, places to avoid with woman (restaurants/movie theaters/bars/anyplace where they can spend your money, avoid women that drink/they love to spend your cash, if you want to attract women you have to be a little bit crazy and do your own thing, avoid restaurants with a girlfriends family & friends, don't allow women to use your time and money, never lend money to women, run background checks on women before getting involved, let her pick up the check.

Free places to meet women: datehookup, plenty of fish, ok Cupid, bookstores, grocery stores, local parks walking a cute dog, free art galleries, libraries, thrift shops, antique browsing, free dating sites.
The first things people usually notice about me
I have really sexy feet, nice kissable lips, interesting & outgoing personality, open minded even with those I disagree with, very passionate yet not high drama, laid back. I'm kinda like a man yet very feminine and sexy. Oh yeah I love good conversation but know how to listen as well. A good conversation should be like a tennis match where it goes back n forth. I can't stand people who never listen and hog the conversation.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Don't sweat the small stuff, Wayne Dyer Books, Life's little instruction book, Automatic Millionaire, The Lazy persons guide to investing, Dave Ramsey books, Clark Howard books, Zig Ziglar books, Dale Carnegie books, Les Brown books.

Support your local public library.

Music: Linkin Park, Johhny Cash, U2, Led Zeppelin, Angie Aparo, REM, Scorpions, The Police, Radiohead, Pink Floyd, Jason Mraz, Indigo Girls, Metallica, Hank Williams 1, 2 and 3, Ramones, Sex Pistols, Jimi Hendrix, The Doors, The Cure, Inxs, Josh Joplin, Stryper, Van Halen, Depeche Mode.

Interesting Documentaries to Watch: Earthlings narrated by Joaquin Phoenix, Forks Over Knives directed by Lee Fulkerson,
Fat, Sick, and Nearly Dead by Joe Cross.

Wayne Dyer - How to be a No-Limit Person (youtube)

Larry Winget - How to turn your life around (youtube)

DON'T GET MARRIED!!! (youtube)

Forks Over Knives (youtube)

Dave Ramsey on How to be Financially Successful (youtube)

Ten Tips to Improve Happiness (youtube)

Fat, Sick & Nearly Dead (youtube)

Jesco White on Marriage (youtube)

Zig Ziglar - Attitude Makes All The Difference (youtube)

Dave Chapelle - Men and Women Psychology - Very True (youtube)

David Bach on how to get rich (youtube)

Motivate Yourself (Must Watch!) (youtube)

Les Brown - How To Live Your Dreams (youtube)

Mimi Kirk (World's Sexiest Vegan) 71-year old talking about her RAW FOOD DIET (youtube)

David Bach's #1 Financial Mistake to Avoid (youtube)

Green Smoothie (Original) (youtube)

10 Other Laws of Power (youtube)

Why Marriage Is Bad For Men - The Marriage Dupe (youtube)

Larry Winget on Money (youtube)

Simply Raw - Reversing Diabetes Naturally (youtube)

The best advice Warren Buffett ever received (youtube)

Eddie Murphy - RAW - Marriage (youtube)

Clark Howard - Best place to save (youtube)

Tom Leykis: Dating (youtube)

Abraham: THE LAW OF ATTRACTION - Part 1 of 5 - Esther & Jerry Hicks (youtube)

The COMPLETE Lifes Little Instruction Book -Read - Randy Bear Michael Reta Jr. (youtube)

Married Men and Single Men - The Difference

Burning Man Festival: History of the Celebration (youtube)

Tony Robbins: Why we do what we do, and how we can do it better (youtube)

How The Secret works (youtube)

John Maxwell - The Secret to Success (youtube)

Don't get married stupid!!! (youtube)

The 48 Laws of Power by Robert Greene

Jack Canfield: The Success Principles (youtube)

How to Win Friends and Influence People - Dale Carnegie (youtube)

Earl Nightingale - The Strangest Secret (youtube)

Diet For a New America (youtube)

Napoleon Hill - Think And Grow Rich - ORIGINAL Full Length (youtube)

Check out Dan & Jennifer Online Dating - Can I Really Fall In Love Online? (youtube)

Chris Rock on Marriage (youtube)

George Carlin -"Who Really Controls America"

Clerks: 37 Dicks (youtube)

The Secret: Using the Law of Attraction in Your Relationship (youtube)

Warren Buffett's 10 Ways to Get Rich (youtube)
Six things I could never do without
Internet, Food, Hot Tub, Music, My Car, Laptop

Life lesson tips: Never co-sign with anyone, drive slower, obey the law, never drink & drive, stay out of court, invest more money/IRA Roth/Max out 401 K, use your local public library, post positive quotes around you, listen to positive audio cd's, google wayne dyer, watch more documentaries, read more, invest in a good education, read automatic millionaire, spend time in nature, relax more, travel more, enjoy life you only get one chance, volunteer, kiss more, have more sex, recycle, eat more vegetarian, drink green smoothies, be open minded and curious, explore roadside attractions, take more pictures, avoid illegal immigrants who just want a green card, learn about wealth & money, google dave ramsey, listen to clark howard, brush & floss daily, explore different churches, google zig ziglar, listen more talk less, learn from your mistakes, look people in the eyes when talking to them, never send money to anyone online, pay off any unpaid traffic tickets ASAP, always have up to date car insurance & make sure you have a drivers license and insurance card with you while driving.

10 Keys to Happiness by Deepak Chopra

Physical well being is inseparable from emotional well being. Happy people are healthy people. The wisdom traditions of the world tell us that happiness does not depend on what you have, but on who you are. As we begin the new year, it may be worthwhile to reflect on what really creates happiness in us. The following ten keys, gleaned from the wisdom traditions, may give us some insight.

1. Listen to your body’s wisdom, which expresses itself through signals of comfort and discomfort. When choosing a certain behavior, ask your body, “How do you feel about this?” If your body sends a signal of physical or emotional distress, watch out. If your body sends a signal of comfort and eagerness, proceed.

2. Live in the present, for it is the only moment you have. Keep your attention on what is here and now; look for the fullness in every moment. Accept what comes to you totally and completely so that you can appreciate it, learn from it, and then let it go. The present is as it should be. It reflects infinite laws of Nature that have brought you this exact thought, this exact physical response. This moment is as it is because the universe is as it is. Don’t struggle against the infinite scheme of things; instead, be at one with it.

3. Take time to be silent, to meditate, to quiet the internal dialogue. In moments of silence, realize that you are recontacting your source of pure awareness. Pay attention to your inner life so that you can be guided by intuition rather than externally imposed interpretations of what is or isn’t good for you.

4. Relinquish your need for external approval. You alone are the judge of your worth, and your goal is to discover infinite worth in yourself, no matter what anyone else thinks. There is great freedom in this realization.

5. When you find yourself reacting with anger or opposition to any person or circumstance, realize that you are only struggling with yourself. Putting up resistance is the response of defenses created by old hurts. When you relinquish this anger, you will be healing yourself and cooperating with the flow of the universe.

6. Know that the world “out there” reflects your reality “in here.” The people you react to most strongly, whether with love or hate, are projections of your inner world. What you most hate is what you most deny in yourself. What you most love is what you most wish for in yourself. Use the mirror of relationships to guide your evolution. The goal is total self-knowledge. When you achieve that, what you most want will automatically be there, and what you most dislike will disappear.

7. Shed the burden of judgment – you will feel much lighter. Judgment imposes right and wrong on situations that just are. Everything can be understood and forgiven, but when you judge, you cut off understanding and shut down the process of learning to love. In judging others, you reflect your lack of self-acceptance. Remember that every person you forgive adds to your self-love.

8. Don’t contaminate your body with toxins, either through food, drink, or toxic emotions. Your body is more than a life-support system. It is the vehicle that will carry you on the journey of your evolution. The health of every cell directly contributes to your state of well being, because every cell is a point of awareness within the field of awareness that is you.

9. Replace fear-motivated behavior with love-motivated behavior. Fear is the product of memory, which dwells in the past. Remembering what hurt us before, we direct our energies toward making certain that an old hurt will not repeat itself. But trying to impose the past on the present will never wipe out the threat of being hurt. That happens only when you find the security of your own being, which is love. Motivated by the truth inside you, you can face any threat because your inner strength is invulnerable to fear.

10. Understand that the physical world is just a mirror of a deeper intelligence. Intelligence is the invisible organizer of all matter and energy, and since a portion of this intelligence resides in you, you share in the organizing power of the cosmos. Because you are inseparably linked to everything, you cannot afford to foul the planet’s air and water. But at a deeper level, you cannot afford to live with a toxic mind, because every thought makes an impression on the whole field of intelligence. Living in balance and purity is the highest good for you and the Earth.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Stuff I'm into/like: Tom Leykis, Green Smoothies, Reading, Music, Concerts, Bill Maher, Craiglist Rants, Burning Man Festival, Ted Convention, Blogging, Youtube, Sex, Documentaries, Mountain Biking, Raw Food, Nature, Green Homes, Law of Attraction, Kindle Fire, Bumper Stickers, Sticker Junkie, Weird Us book series, Netflix, Sexy Feet, Massages, Porn, Indie Films, Vitamix, Found Magazine, Dragon Con, Vegetarian Cooking, Facebook, Twitter, Hiking, Forks over knives documentary, Xhamster, Roadside Attractions, Youporn, The Better World Handbook (book), Stencial Art, Larry Flynt, Men's Rights, Political Cartoons, Indie Bookstores, Bonfires, Cabins with a hot tub in the fall/winter, Religion, Jesse Ventura, Buddhism, The Meaning of Life, Deepak Chopra, Earthlings documentary on youtube, Dr. Bronner's magic soaps, Chick publications, Larry Winget, Thrift Stores, Books, Antique Stores, Photography.
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Looking for real man = golddigger.

1) A man who will comprimise his values and self respect to please women.

2) An insult used by women to shame a man into behaving how she wants him to.

1) Whenever a woman says, "I am a real woman looking for a real man." what she is really saying is, "I am loud mouthed, verbally abusive, manipulative user, and I want some wimp who never says no to me."

2) Girlfriend says, "If you were a real man you would be happy to pay all of my bills, listen to me complain, wash my car, and never disagree with me. Oh, and you would never pester me for sex".

Real Man:

The insult women use when they want to bring down a guy enough to get him to do whatever she wants.

Aside from that fact that there is no definitive image of a "real man" (and no, women's delusions do not count), there's also the fact that nobody ever ask if SHE was a "real woman".

Woman: What? That guy stepped on my toes and you won't defend my honor? What kind of a man are you? I thought I married a REAL man?

Man: Oh yeah? And what kind of a fucking woman are you? You never seem to ever care whenever you ask me to fight some guy TWICE MY FUCKING SIZE over something as shitty as stepping on your toes. I thought I married a REAL woman?

Real Man:

Term used by greedy women looking for a sugar daddy.
A guy that spends a lot of money on a money grubbing gold digging woman. A guy that takes a dinner whore to expensive fine dining restaurants. A man that buys drinks for a woman and all her friends. A real man is one that dumps any chick that uses the term "real man" or "gentleman".

"I want a REAL MAN who knows how to treat his woman right"
On a typical Friday night I am
Hanging out with friends, dating, not ashamed to admit sitting at home reading books or watching cool movies/documentaries by myself. Things I enjoy doing: making green smoothies, exploring new places, traveling, reading, talking with interesting people, exploring a new church/religion every week, watch a new documentary on netflix, blog, kiss, get a damn good foot massage.

Dave Chapelle - Men and Women Psychology - Very True (youtube)

Avoid any woman that uses the term looking for a real man.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I find other women attractive. I have a foot fetish.

Google men's rights.

Be yourself. Everyone else is taken.

Saving money tips with women: (For guys)

-Stay away from women that smoke and drink.
-Never co-sign with a woman or lend money.
-Always use condoms to prevent mandatory child support payments.
-Rent movies rather than going to expensive movie theaters.
-Stay away from restaurants, bars, movie theaters, comedy clubs.
-The best place to be with a woman is at a house. Avoid anyplace she can spend your money.
-Never lend money to a woman. You often lose both the woman & the money.
-Eat alone and enjoy a good meal without her talking in your ear.
-Don't get married if you are tight with your money.
-Don't let her move in with you.
-Use two for one dinner coupons at restaurants. Often you can sneak it to the waiter without her even knowing. (Groupons, Entertainment coupon books, look in newspapers/subscribe to online coupons)
-Drink water when eating out.
-Don't do all the driving let her drive.
-Let her pick up the check. Not only will you save money you will get laid more. (Bad boys get laid while poindexters become lawn boy husbands who pay for everything)
-Buy her gifts that you can use. That being said avoid gifts she can use with another man in case you break up.
-Don't leave your stuff at her house in case you break up.
-Avoid eating out with your girlfriends family & friends.
-Avoid single moms with kids. Dating women with kids is expensive and you will always be #2.
-Avoid going out to eat with her friends & family.
-It's just easy to fall in love with a rich woman as a poor woman.
-Never date or marry an illegal immigrant that needs a green card to stay in this country. Marriage fraud will cost you money & pain.

Women are expensive & cause drama for men. Avoid any woman that uses real man. Real man = high drama goldiggers.
You should message me if
You are open minded, easy going, loves nature, likes to read, enjoys a good conversation, open minded about sex, loves to kiss, smart, kind, intelligent, passionate about life! Check me out on Facebook Jen Hope Atlanta

Greensmoothiegirl808 Plenty of fish (Free Dating Site)

Google men's rights,, don't get married! YouTube.

Chivalry died when women started readin' the shit in all them magazines. They got too much advice about men from other women. And they don't know what the fuck they're talkin' about. I see them in the grocery store, says on the cover "100 Ways to Please Your Man" by some lady. Come on, man. Ain't no 100 ways. That list is four things long. Just suck his dick, play with his balls, fix him a sandwich, and don't talk so much and he'll be happy!
Dave Chappelle

Check out toesuckinggirl on xhamster.

Tips for meeting more women: join every free online dating site out there, avoid all women in the friend zone, say hello to every beautiful woman in public, go to whole foods, if you have a dog go to dog parks, have a drink at a hotel bar, dress well, act confident even if aren't, avoid relationships & learn to hit it and quit it, attend festivals, look busy & important, have a little gruff on the face, be a little bit of an asshole, stop worrying what she thinks & relax, be a little bit crazy around women, don't get married, avoid women that talk too much and use up your time, best date is at her house watching her movies while she cooks for you, single women with kids at home are cock blockers, never pay for a girlfriends friends meals or drinks, meet at free or at least low cost places for first time meet ups/bookstores, parks during the day, parking lots, avoid restaurants & bars with women, stop talking on the phone with women all day & bring it to real life ASAP, start working out, read more books & watch documentaries so you will have something to talk about, never give up guy friends & hobbies for women, avoid relationships & have lovers only, women want relationships so bad because they benefit from them by getting free meals & movies, learn the art of conversation, be you, stop trying to please her all the time because a man can never please a woman, be a little aloof with woman, find your passions in life & stop worrying what she wants, avoid high drama princess types & don't try to please them, be funny & learn to use humor, smile at all women in public, google how to flirt with women, even Babe Ruth struck out so know its a numbers game, practice striking up conversations with hot women, never throw out a woman's number, collect women's phone numbers & email addresses for a rainy day, no wife or girlfriend, never let women move in with you, read player books, watch player videos on YouTube, experiment with picking up hot strange women while in another town or on vacation, google best places to meet women in the town you are in, don't try to be perfect rather be interesting, laugh often with women, hint to women that you love giving oral sex, be mr right now not mr right, work on improving you not a relationship,

Barnes & Noble Employee Blog.

Love your public library!

Free dating sites (plenty of fish, date hookup, ok cupid, evow)
The more sites you join the more women you will get. Never put all your eggs in one basket & always have women for backup, never throw out women's # even if you get in a new relationship/always have a plan B.

Women love to use up a man's money & time. Stop with the texting & talking on the phone and meet in person. Do you want a lover or be stuck in the friends zone?

Please share this info with male friends, post in forums, media, blogs, craigslist rants, dating sites, single men that are thinking of getting married, men that are dating high drama women.

Google men's rights,, Tom leykis on dating YouTube, Don't get married YouTube, greensmoothiegirl @
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