People sometimes misinterpret my stubbornness as close-mindedness. I have strong opinions, but I keep my mind open and I always try to see things from other points of view, try to never miss an opportunity for gaining new perspective. I am drawn towards people with strong conviction. At the same time, ya gotta be pretty open minded to hang with me. I'm somewhat reserved until I figure out we click and then I'm an open book.
If you take life too seriously you’ll miss the whole point. But I believe in having ambition and challenging oneself. I consider myself to be a skeptical optimist and maintain a positive attitude about things. But a little negativity in moderation is refreshing sometimes too. All about maintaining balance ya know. The world is so f’d up but so damn funny. I occasionally get frustrated with stupid people, but then I remember they’re just here to make me laugh.
I've found it to be surprising, discovering whom I'm compatible with. I don't have a lot of specific requirements for a potential partner, I'm just looking for someone to connect with on a broad spectrum. Family is important to me and I feel pretty lucky to have an awesome family that I like spending time with even though I'm sort of the outlier. I appreciate unconventionality, warped sense's of humor, challenges, and adventurousness. Smart girls turn me on. If you’re curious, sensual, love to try new things, and have a good sense of humor then we’d probably get along.
Here’s a short list of things I am not looking for:
1) a born-again Christian (or born-again anything)
2) overly materialistic or conformist
3) someone who when you go out to dinner, she picks at her food rather than enjoys it
4) high strung or severely bi-polar
5) a flake