52Edwardsville, United States
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My self-summary
For the most part, I have consider myself to be quite lucky [and grateful] so far in life .. only a few major setbacks but now I am looking to be lucky in love.. again. I am a fun loving gal who loves to have a good time, and am one that is a believer of "laughter is the best medicine." I can be a bit sarcastic but do know when and where to be serious and respect that that trait in others as well.
What I’m doing with my life
Looking for someone special in the this world of 7 billion people -- the intelligent man to open my mind to new experiences and challenges – the handsome man to open my eyes to see the world in a whole new light; and the gentleman to open my heart to adore them completely. You will no doubt get so much extra credit on the above qualities. :)
I’m really good at
I am a good listener and like to have great conversation about a variety of things that I may or may not know much about. Bonus points if you are able to carry on a conversation whether the topic is serious or silly. I like to learn about just about ANYTHING – whether it be sports or whatever.
The first things people usually notice about me
My smile, deep blue eyes and my charming personality that has a great sense of humor attached .. lol
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I don’t really have any favorite books but some of my favorite movies include Pretty Woman, Hangover, Bringing Down the House, Gran Torino, The Blind Side, and just about any romantic comedy. The old favorite of mine is Officer and a Gentleman. The TV shows I like are Food Network, travel and news channels, TLC network [some shows]. My favorite music is the songs from the 80s’ and such .. not a real big fan of country anymore but still listen to a “few of my select favorite country songs.” My favorite food is Mexican, with a good steak coming in second and tied for third is Italian and Chinese. Not a fan of sushi but can always talk me into a burger and a beer at Fast Eddie’s.
Six things I could never do without
My 2 great sons, the computer/internet, my healthy life, good friends, my family, my job and a good cocktail --- beer, wine or whatever!

The thing that I CAN live without .. is drama and baggage. I am amazed at times that some men enjoy this - me so not much so ..just sayin :)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
The things on my bucket list that I would like to do before my time, before it is too late. Life is short -- gotta get out and enjoy the things in life. And if any of the men actually read these profiles and are just skimming the internet because of boredom. :)
On a typical Friday night I am
Sometimes at home just vegging out – or I could maybe be out with my friends listening to a band yet just all depends on what is happening.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
That men in Missouri think the other side of the river is in Chicago -- and a few miles across the river is sooo far away lol. But that is okay .. I know it is a deal breaker with living in IL -- oh well..
You should message me if
If you are TRULY serious and/or you are who you say you are. Fakers just need to get a life instead of stalking. The Other dealbreaker I have is if you smoke, I am not interested. I can't handle the thought of "kissing a cigarette" when I would sooner be "kissing a prince" :) ALSO -- let's be real here -- looking for people who live close to me -- not in a state that is truthfully too far to have any type of relationship -- just saying :)
The two of us