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My self-summary
I am a divorced father of a PERFECT precious little girl (FIVE years old now...) that I have half time and she means the world to me.
I am mixed, but look straight white, or like there is some mix that you cannot quiiiite put your finger on...

Some of my fave movie lines:

- Skadooosch

- Dong? Dong? Where is grandfather's automobile?

- Her innards were a rocky place where my seed could find no

- Let me explain something to you. Um, I am not "Mr. Lebowski".
You're Mr. Lebowski. I'm the Dude. So that's what you call me. You know, that or, uh, His Dudeness, or uh, Duder, or El Duderino if you're not into the whole brevity thing.

I am witty, smart, and empathetic (everyone seems to put some "tag' words in their profiles, so I will join - not that I always follow the grain).

I am a Briggs ENTP, since it seems a ton of people seem to like adding that to profiles...
BUT - I took the "long" personality test on OKC and scored ESFJ - so I guess I am constantly changing (I think that's kinda cool!).

I like sports - Ok, LOVE sports - Football: New England Patriots (CONGRATS 2015 CHAMPS!!! WOO HOO!) & SF 49ers.... Baseball: Boston Red Sox & SF Giants... Hockey: San Jose Sharks (please get through the first playoff round! PLEASE!!!!) & Boston Bruins. Lessly: Boston Celtics. Period. Soccer - wuzzat?

I am a HORRIBLE surfer, but I keep trying and there really is nothing like being on a board on the water (even if not actually letting the wave catch you - yeah, I only longboard).

Oh - I mostly use the mobile version of this site and I always read profiles from the bottom of the page to the top, then I click on the details, and THEN I look at the pictures. When i get to the pictures, either I'm interested in more and wasn't to see WHO I just liked, or else I see WHO will miss out on this hunka hunka burning love! Like the überreligious, those not interested in the possibility of kids, the overserious, and Justin Beiber fans.
And I don't initiate much - contrary to what anyone who knows me would bear witness to, I can be super shy. I message more to tell someone I really liked something in their profile (sometimes looks, but mostly things that made me giggle), but I also wish them good luck in their search (and I'm sincere in saying that). If I like someone, then I may eventually message them.
I always respond to people whether I see something I like or not - it's just good manners (girls get absolutely assenine junk from some guys and shouldn't respond to those, but I've never gotten those because I'm a guy or else just super lucky!)
What I’m doing with my life
Working, sleeping, biking (Los Gatos Trail mostly), filling
this thing in until I have time to fill in more.
I’m really good at
Pretty much anything I put my mind too. ;)
The first things people usually notice about me
My eyes and my damn thickish eyelashes.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
80s music mostly, but VERY eclectic music tastes - from some
country (Dwight Yoakam) to house, rock, classic, even (do not quote me on this because I will probably deny) Enya..
Can't STAND Mumford and Sons. SERIOUSLY... bleh!

80s movies - The Jerk, Raising Arizona, LA Story (huh? Enya again? sorry, no idea what you are talking about), 16 Candles (reference above), John Hughes anything, The Princess Bride (yeah, I said it - gotta problem with it 6-fingers? huh?), Holy Grail, Big Fish, the latest Star Trek flick, The Big Lebowski

NOTE: I WILL probably force you to watch "The Quiet Man" on a couch... Great flick - GREAT!

Books - Vonnegut, Herman Woulk, old Clancy (I'm a guy!), Steven King, and... need to read more (yeah I've read more, but those guys' stuff are my faves)

Food - Indian and Italian food - SPICY food! Love the hell outta
the spiciest any Thai place can dish out!

Shows - 30 Rock (RIP), Intervention, Modern Family, Big Bang Theory, LOVE Archer (I literally laugh out loud watching it), almost all of Adult Swim, old Star Trek - not much on drama or reality (except Intervention or Parking Wars or those kinds), big on sitcoms, and SILICON VALLEY!!!! Genius!

I've seen "Wicked" in London and on Broadway, plus "Avenue Q" twice - on Broadway and in Vegas (yeah, for its short abridged-version run at the Wynn)
Six things I could never do without
1. Daughter
2. Travel
3. Job
4. Internet
5. Car (traveling to the City!)
6. Friends

Plus the requisite "not necessarily in that order..."
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Every 7 seconds? Really? I guess the psychologistic types may be onto something there...
Plus trying to avoid sailor talk in front of my impressionistic daughter.
On a typical Friday night I am
Watching tv. Or at the movies. Or reading. Or playing Wii with my daughter if its my weekend with her (every other weekend).
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
OK, OK... I was on a reality TV show that I guarantee you never saw. By the same people that do Pawn Stars (and in the same city).
You should message me if
You are bored out of your cotton-picking mind and have little drama (none, preferably) and no substance abuse issues.
Also - cool with just "Activity partners" to just hang out with on a social basis like going to the beach, hanging out in the City, or movies, etc.

Note: I have my daughter every other weekend. Almost no exception. So there's that...

Fun fact: there is a douchebag setting on here where you can be in a relationship or even married, but set it so you are looking for whatever. If that is the case, then the profile will show as "Available" instead of "Single"....
I apparently had this "douchebag" setting for months - I had dated a girl and then set my profile to "In a relationship" and hid my profile. After breaking up, I set it back active and FORGOT TO SET IT BACK TO "SINGLE" and months later I was alerted to the fact that I was a douchebag.
Ladies - watch for that profile tipoff. Or maybe you ARE just looking for a fling, in that case, have at them!

Note: I AM single and looking for long term...
The two of us