56San Jose, United States
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My self-summary
Looking for a goofy, silly, funny, grounded woman for companionship, fun, and adventure.

Let's explore some things together - or show me something you like that I haven't tried yet. I love learning new things!

Divorced 10+ years, looking for an inspiring, intelligent woman to play with!

I am truly looking for a monogamous, long-term relationship.
What I’m doing with my life
Raising my 3 kids (16, 21, 24) who moved in with me 5 years ago.
Supporting and guiding said kids to adulthood.
Being creative and having fun.
And laughing.
Oh, and eating good food.
I’m really good at
Modesty ;)
Listening, and being a good friend.

I like board games, conversation, and just spending time together. Listening to music, watching movies...

I program embedded software for a living (and it's kinda fun), I am an actor with a union card (on hiatus at the moment); I have designed and programmed video games; I have built pergolas and decks and re-built car engines; i have designed, built, and flown r/c planes. Oh, and I can cook fairly well. At least my kids think so :)
The first things people usually notice about me
Approachable, happy.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books: Lots of things, but not really intense books about people being psychotic and hurting others. I can handle most Stephen King, and I loved the Fire and Ice series (Game of Thrones).

Movies: Most sci-fi (even bad sci-f), Love Actually, My Favorite Year, Spanglish, The Fifth Element, LOTR, Chronicles of Riddick, That Thing You Do, Armageddon, Raising Arizona (most Cohen Bros films), Children of Man, Interstellar, many more!

TV: Firefly, Dr. Who, Star Trek (all of em), Perfect Strangers, Cheers, Taxi, Justified, Orphan Black, Downton Abbey, Daredevil, House, Breaking Bad, Quantico ...

Music: Mostly Rock n Roll, R&B, Blues, Rockabilly, some Jazz, classical, not really into Rap or screamo or grunge or country (with exceptions - good songwriting no matter the genre).

Food: Love all kinds of food. Does that cover it? Am I good to go here? Yeah? Okie dokie
Six things I could never do without
Family and Friends
...that's pretty much it...

A hot shower every morning is nice.
Communication is good.
And a nice Bosc pear with some sliced Parmesan.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Making sure my kids are learning good things and being more independent.
Creative things.
Who needs a ride where (Mr. Mom's taxi service)
Finding my next love.
Did my kids get their homework done.
On a typical Friday night I am
Hanging out with my kids
Getting out with a friend or two for a bit.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I love my kids, and they drive me crazy. But I wouldn't have it any other way. I am so glad they are with me, even if my hair turns more grey!
You should message me if
You are:
Down to earth
Fun / Silly
Enjoy life

Want to get out and talk with a great guy.

If you don't meet in person, you don't meet the person.

Wow, I better copyright that phrase :)
The two of us