I am looking to make new friends and go from there. I'm a lot of fun and I love being a goof ball. Honestly I am a real, down to earth guy.
Anyway, I believe our lives are too short to hold grudges. Personally, I do not want to take to much time with this bio because we all know, no one really cares about it or reads it. No matter what it may say, people will always think what they want about me.
I know that, I am a good, passionate, optimistic person and I am sick of all the BitchAssNess. I am going to be the first to say I am not completely innocent in this drama but, I am not going to put up with it any longer.
I am at a point right now where I really no longer care what people think about me. I am not here to please any one else except my family. They are the only people who matter along with a very few select people who have earned that importance in my life, which they know who they are.
I am not going to change myself to please others. I was born this way, I am who I am, and if you do not like it, then I do not need you in my life. The phoenix deep inside, radiates to those around me and I will rise again.
I shouldn't be the one talking because I am just like every single person out there. I struggle every single day and I can honestly tell you, I have cried myself to sleep a lot but, I know deep down I can make it through the pain and conquer the shadow.
All the issues we have in our lives are only temporary. Things get better and we are able to learn from our experiences and build a solid foundation for our futures. In my eyes is I am trying extremely hard every single day to survive. Survival is one of the most poignant things that we must all do and I cannot speak for anyone except myself but I can be there for anyone that needs it.
All of our lives are unique but, in many ways are very similar to each other. We all spend so much time worrying about tomorrow and we forget to live for today and the moments that make life special. Our lives are so short and time moves extremely fast, so don't let the bad things get you down. Learn life lessons from them, and try to find any positive aspect out of a negative situation, because there is a positive connected to every single negative in life.
What I've learned is that one can never hold a grudge against someone else; no matter what ever happens between them. Every single person in this world is flawed, we all have little things about us some cannot stand but, it is only a small piece of who we are as a whole.
So many people spend too much time worrying about the negative aspects to their life and they would be amazed to see the many amazing, special and great things about them not able to be seen.
I know what it is like to feel pain. I know that when our lives come crumbling down we want to give up and never face the world again, when in all reality, that is not even possible. We need to face the world. We need to stand strong and trust all those who love us and care about us.
I can admit to myself and to all of you fine people that even though, I may not know you or I may not speak to you as much as I should, I care about you all in a very special way. I will always be there when your down, I will always listen and give the best advice I can muster, as long as you promise to always keep fighting and never give up on who you are and the person you will become. Always remember that I am here for you and even if you can't speak to me search out those who are willing because there is always someone out there to listen.
"You have to take care of each other. You have to be strong. The hardest thing in this world... is to live in it. Be brave. Live. For me." Buffy
Don't ever loose sight of who you are.
With all of my sincerity and love,
Nicholas William Liguigli Burke