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My self-summary
fmnt fag afab butch queen
sacred n profane being
looking 4 those who believe
in their own divinity
and who are working towards healing
swagger of all genders appreciated
integrity required
if you don't do woo
we probably can't be friends
please be woke
and ready to live your dreams
What I’m doing with my life
caring for myself, making magic, playing, reading, writing, teaching, parenting, loving, indulging, enjoying, balancing, laughing, crying, surviving, healing.
The first things people usually notice about me
that my ethnicity and gender are ambiguous. that i'm pretty. :)
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
been a speculative fiction nerd since i was 10 years old. the two performers i have seen multiple times in concert are erykah badu and jose james. so glad i saw the purple one before he passed. i like to cook and eat tasty food and believe that food is medicine.
Six things I could never do without
1. friends and family
2. embodiment - enjoying this flesh this lifetime
3. (self) love
4. transformative conversation that verges on ecstatic intercourse
5. creating
6. spiritual practice
I spend a lot of time thinking about
struggle n praxis n transformation
On a typical Friday night I am
doing whatever the hell i want.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
i am a trans man that may never transition.
You should message me if
you think that gender and sexuality concepts are totally inadequate to express the writhing chimera that you are and the kind of beings you like to rub your tentacles on.

you are a person of color.

you consistently act to end white supremacy and all other forms of domination and wanna fuck things up together.

you can appreciate that love is infinite and can only grow the more people you love.

you regularly experience compersion (the act of feeling joy and happiness when the people you love experience joy and happiness for themselves and with others) and know what to do with your jealousy.

you love your body.

you think that people who bother to actually write things like "must be height weight proportionate" are dumb assholes.
The two of us