50 Bellingham, United States
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My self-summary
I'm pro all gender identities and/or lack thereof.
I'm primarily here for friends/kindred spirits/conversation.

I'm passionate, intense, funny, engaged, and usually kind and compassionate. I can be stubborn, moody and argumentative.

I gravitate toward those who are interesting, intelligent, and full of life. My favorite people are kind, friendly, funny, gracious and at least occasionally cheerful.

I still stand by and deeply respect President Obama. Interests include: stand-up comedy, spirituality, animal rights, social justice, communication and media. And politics, naturally.
What I’m doing with my life
Several interesting part-time things that equate to better than a full-time thing, if not financially so.

I might be found singing loudly, enjoying time with my partners, saving earthworms from sidewalks, sharing conversations and coffee with friends, talking to strangers on benches or trying to get someone to do something about something I care about. Napping rocks, too.

I love to talk politics, religion too. Otherwise, my sense of etiquette is pretty highly developed.
I’m really good at
The first things people usually notice about me
My presence
My eyes
My voice
My opinion
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books: sf/f, literature, spirituality/religion, young adult dystopian fiction.
Some authors: Marion Zimmer Bradley; Neil Gaiman; Thich Nhat Hanh; George R. R. Martin; Patrick Rothfuss

TV/film: HBO series, drama, comedy, animation.
Some films: About Schmidt, Koyanisqqatsi, Cloud Atlas, Melancholia
Some shows: The Wire, Game of Thrones, Transparent, Luke Cage!

Music: Hip Hop, folk, ambient, Middle Eastern/world, funk, crappy 70s...
Some artists: Snoop Dogg, Laurie Anderson, Me'shell Ndege'ocello, Hossam Ramzy, Parliament, Bob Seger, Kraftwerk, Peter Gabriel

Favorite food cultures: Ethiopian, Lebanese, Chinese, Turkish, Japanese, Mexican
Some foods: Pasta, sushi, good salads, artichokes are sexy, pickles, olives and I am unrepentantly addicted to lemons and limes.
The six things I could never do without
(First two tiers of Maslow's hierarchy implied)

Friends/chosen family/tribe
I spend a lot of time thinking about
acceptance vs change
whats wrong with the world
how to change it
how over-analytical I am
whether or not I spend too much time thinking about the above...
On a typical Friday night I am
Out: Karaoke? Dinner? Bookstore date? Musical theater?
In: HBO? Games night? Music-making with friends? Dinner party?
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I locked myself into a bathroom on a Greyhound bus once.
You should message me if
You liked my profile. You want a penpal or a new friend. You can has opinions. You care about something. You support the rights of people of any gender to love people of any gender. You consistently spell "you" with three letters.

Edit: this profile received two thumbs up from c-c- who thinks nightsinge is awesome.