Nils is quite a catch. He is honest, intelligent, caring and
sensitive. He can dance (including ballroom) and enjoys going to ballet performances, theatre, movies or spend time exercising in the outdoors. With his education and abilities, he will always have a job and be able to support himself and a family well. Take him out for a date and understand that he might be a bit awkward and shy until he knows you better. You might have to make the first move ;)
Now back to Nils's own writing...
I'm originally from Germany, and came to the US after I finished my PhD. I lived in Chicago for five years before taking a job in Iowa. I'm more of a city person at heart, but I've made myself a home here. Whether I'll stay in Iowa for the rest of my life is an open question.
I have found that openness, honesty and kindness solve a lot of life's problems. I believe in continuous self improvement, but also in the importance of being happy with who you are right now.
After my IronMan last year I'm dialing back my athletic activity (at least for a while) and am focusing somewhat more on my dancing and other hobbies. At some point I was taking guitar lessons, maybe I start with those again.
Apart from that you should have something in your life that you feel passionate about or can be proud of. You should no longer be living with your parents; and ideally you would have lived in another state at least once and have traveled abroad.