niludevi
52 North Adams, United States
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My self-summary
Staying open and learning are important values for me. Sometimes I trust a little more than I should, but I suppose it's better than the alternative.

While I'm naturally playful, I also have a reflective side and a sharp mind that require regular feeding. Quiet walks, time being still and nurturing touch all keep me balanced. I'm very affectionate and communicative and seek the same in my match - someone with depth who has the skills to build and maintain an intimate connection.
What I’m doing with my life
staying curious
enjoying the children in my life
remodeling my house
advocating for the disadvantaged
being grateful
getting out to hear live music/theater/lectures
asking the big questions
expanding my community
opening my mind and heart wider
teaching yoga/leading kirtans
I’m really good at
slowing down (a gift of getting a little older)
being fair / honoring your autonomy
communicating
intimacy
remembering who directed which movie
mental stuff
puzzles and strategic board games (watch out!)
adapting
being me (authenticity is important)
finding the car keys
using my soft voice

Not so good at:
putting away clean laundry (really good at sorting, though)
eating half a dessert
doing boring paperwork on time
The first things people usually notice about me
that I am:
warm
caring
engaged with life
present with people
working on myself
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books: A Hundred Years of Solitude, Annie Lamott's essays, Marge Piercy's poetry and prose, Mary Oliver's poetry, Alice Hoffman
Movies: dramas (it's a long list)
Music: the BSO at Tanglewood, Aiofe O'Donovan, the Waifs, Tom Waits, Alison Krauss, David Bromberg, Krishna Das, Gillian Welch
Shows: Oz, Six Feet Under, Sopranos, Top Chef, Parenthood, Prisoners of War, Northern Exposure
The six things I could never do without
hope
trees
music
touch
words
chocolate
I spend a lot of time thinking about
what's important in a situation
what it looks like to treat each other well (and what gets in our way)
how life gets better and richer
On a typical Friday night I am
Relaxing after the work week.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I can be a little geeky when it comes to my professional life ... and geeky can be sexy.
You should message me if
-you connect with my words
-you like to laugh and have fun, but are engaged in your inner life
-you can appreciate a passionate, complex, spiritual yet intellectual woman
-you can drive to the Berkshires in under 3 hours - safely :)
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