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My self-summary
homies in the eve, homeworking during the day, hanging w u not during those times?**

this is my travelling profile, just in case i am passing through your town and looking for company. i change my location based on where i'll be next (or where i'm hoping to go), but los angeles is where i call home for the time being.
darlingestnikki is my la profile

i'm an only child, too independent that i don't need you. but i love sharing real, fun moments of simple intimate pleasure, so i'm opening myself to spending time with people who are about that.

in other words-- i wanna be adored by someone(s) adorable, that i can adore, and be adorable with.
and a husband who could facilitate this mutual adoration for as long as we co-adore.
What I’m doing with my life
trying to save the world.
or at least make it a better place.

i give a shit about things and you should too. it is not cool to be too cool to give a shit.
I’m really good at
pretending to be american. being mistaken for mexican.
carving out my world in echo park.
eating messily.
being a bleeding heart without bleeding all over you.
inciting group hugs and happy birthday singing.
ingesting deathly spicy foods without breaking a sweat.
The first things people usually notice about me
i look exactly like your asian friend _____.
i have a really good grasp of the english language.
you immediately feel so tall standing by me.
i've offended you somehow, but you're laughing so it's ok?
i have really pretty hair.
you can't tell if i'm being sarcastic or sincere. me neither.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
i like the book versions of movies better, and songs with movie titles, and books with song titles, and tv shows about food. leftovers and reruns are my jam.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
which neverland (and alwaysland) will i end up in next and can i stop being a tinkerbell and ever be a wendy?
On a typical Friday night I am
avoiding weekend warriors.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
i like hipsters.
but only ironically.

please, don't tell anyone.

less ironically, i have a major case of relationship aspergers, complicated by my simultaneous commitmentphobia and intimacy mania. i know what i'm about and want (semi-committed non-monogamy in order to meet the needs of my hyperactive libido), but less so about how to get it. nor what you want, and if you even get what i'm going for. and frankly, i'm ok with it because i like determining my own rules and figuring it out as we go along-- i'm not interested in having relationships like every other out there, even if what i desire is something longer term.

my biggest challenge is finding other people that are endeared to my aspyness and can complement it. my next biggest challenge is trying to figure out how to sustain connections longterm without taking things too seriously (or rather, preemptively freaking out about things getting too serious when 'serious' is the last thing i want things to be). how does it happen? (not a rhetorical question.)
You should message me if
you can give me hope for the world. no pressure. just tell me what you're doing to make the world a better place.

you're fluent in pillow talk and can serenade me in it.
hockey talk makes for the best pillow talk.

you have a similar mild case of relationship aspergers and want to [co]write (y)our own rules.

you want to co-found a creative collective, where i write while you do whatever it is that makes you happy.

you are a traveler. an international, more specifically. it's nice to be reminded of non-american ideologies. and the accents are more charming.

and if you got balls. and know how to use em.

but not
if you wanna make plans to hang out without seeing if we have any sorta intellectual (dare i say emotional?) foundation for enjoying each other's company. it's the chemistry litmus test, i know. but those are easy to cheat on, so let's study each other first k?

i'm down to meet people who can pique my interest and engage me, but i am not actively seeking. i don't have time for more revolving door relationships that seem endemic to l.a. so i may not respond if that's the vibe i get. i'm probably not even going to click on you if you don't write anything that clicks with me. but i commend you for trying. good luck!

this is the most high maintenance i'll ever get. promise.