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My self-summary
I'm a father, a husband, a slut - and a blogger.

I'm dominant, but sensually so. I don't have any interest in humiliation, or degradation, or pain - except to the extent that those things make you wet. And even then, the first two will be a challenge for me. Because, honestly, I deeply respect and appreciate any woman I'm having sex with, and so humiliation and degradation require acting. And I'm a shitty actor.

That said, I'm confident, directive, and self-assured, and if we get to the point where we're in a bedroom together (or a hotel room, or an alley, or wherever), you may rest assured that I will take from you what I want. You know, in a consensual, respectful sort of way. But still....
What I’m doing with my life
Writing, reading, studying, living, loving....
I’m really good at
.... Yes. Yes I am.
The first things people usually notice about me
My vocabulary? My grammar? My eyes?
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
There's little I don't like. I'm a sucker for a good novel, a good non-fiction book, a movie of just about any sort (other than costume drama), any sort of show, any music (other than opera - sorry) and all food (except vegan - again, sorry).

If you're vegan, we'll have to meet after dinner.

Which, honestly, is fine. Because it's dessert we'll both be after.
Six things I could never do without

I'm done.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
So much. The usual.
On a typical Friday night I am
Home with my family? On a date with my wife? On a date with my wife and another person or three? On a date without my wife?
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
It's ALL in the blog -
You should message me if
My blog ( appeals to you....

You're not put off by my lack of pictures. (I've put up several, but there's someone who's annoyed with me who keeps flagging them. The perils of blogging....)
The two of us