39 Gastonia, United States
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My self-summary
Once in a while everyone must reinvent themselves. I was recently blessed to be relieved of my old job. Now I am off to a new job, in a new city, working in a new industry. I have been blessed to have had great life, full of great experiences, but I have spent it working. I worked to get out of school to go to work and I feel that a lot of the good things in life have passed me by. I am looking forward to this new chapter in my life and I am hoping I can find someone to enjoy it with.

I love little neighborhood hangouts, and live music. I love to explore new places and to make new discoveries. My morals are probably more in line with your grandparents than with your friends. That shouldn’t be taken to mean that I am a stick in the mud, I have been known to drink a beer in some seedy places or to do some spontaneous things (just not karaoke) but you won’t find me drunk at a bar or causing fights. I can be quiet and I am probably a little too introverted for my own good, but that makes me a good listener and i tend to be the person everyone turns to for advice on the weighty issues. I have been told that i keep a good counsel. I love the idea of being a renaissance man, a man with talents and knowledge covering a wide area. I need to work on the arts and letters part of that though. I guess to boil it all down I’m a bit old fashioned but I think there are a lot of lovely ladies that could appreciate that, they may just not know it yet.

So what am I looking for? If I knew that for sure, my life would be a lot easier. I grew up surrounded by strong women. So passive doesn’t interest me. I would love to find someone outgoing, someone who will challenge me, someone who will be my balance. I would love to find someone who shares my Christian background and love of live music. I would love to find someone that can show me all the area has to offer or someone new to the area that wants to go explore with me.
What I’m doing with my life
Moving to a new city, starting a new job and looking for someone to share the adventure with
I’m really good at
For some reason a lot of people come to me for advice. I think it because I'll just listen, then tell them what they already know to be true.

On a more practical side, I'm full of random facts and I'm good at fixing things.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books: non-fiction
Movies: Comedies
Music: anything live, otherwise Jam Bands, Blues, Rock, Soul, Alt Country...
Food: Red Meat, Pork and Chicken
The six things I could never do without
I'm pretty content in any situation. What would I like to have?

Satellite Radio
Diet Coke
Heat and AC
I spend a lot of time thinking about
My mind is very active so it could be anythig, at any time, but I try to leave work at work.
On a typical Friday night I am
Unless there is a good show, there is a good chance I'll just stay in and recover from a long work week. I might do a little house keeping or maybe just catch up on the DVR.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I've been hanging out here way too long...
You should message me if
I'm really bad about making first contact, don't be afraid.